Often we want all types of women and relationships, and we think they make us fulfilled and happy.
But the Chinese proverb “be careful what you wish for because you could do” utters a great truth.
It happens often that after we work hard and consume a lot of energy to get something we understand that actually that's not what we want.
We want a blond with big Tits, to be our lover, because then we understand that when left alone, this have fun with almost any type nearby. How could you be happy with a woman like that?
Or do we want a colleague from school, as soon as we understand that because of poverty she's looking for a guy with money to satisfy his hunger. As you might be, nothing with this woman?
The good thing is that women are the best in the world, there is enough for everyone.
There are certain qualities and characteristics that should be sought, to ensure that when you have a girlfriend you to be whole and happy with her.
To list a few of these qualities:
1.It may seem a little strange, but one of the first characteristics on which we put them for his sweetheart, it will look at your relations with her own family. From my experience and that of those around you, from books about couples and families that I've read, long-term relationship with a woman who has a good relationship with his own family such a pleasure into a minefield. If it is from a family of alcoholics, arguing, and having all kinds of problems, it's time to put the sign out, and get ready for the drama. I know it's not her fault for the situation in which there is, but here we are talking about happiness and fulfilment YOUR. If you want to be a therapist her Savior , the Prince, you than. But maybe questions that you've to add it, and only you will be responsible for everything.
2.The second feature is LOYALTY. I don't know if there is a lot of men who are in a stable relationship or even a family with a woman and shoot random guys that confirm this. If you want to get a woman, you need to see all her family. In relation to their parents. It is important to understand that the family model is very difficult to change, and if they are happy together, there is every chance that girls want to be her lover, because she sees how her parents and knows what's going on, fulfilling the spiritual. I'm not saying it's clogged on the nails, but the model parent has the biggest influence. If you don't believe me, search for girls who do not have a dad when you were children or teenagers, either due to divorce or other reasons. As for lifestyle, and you will see that these girls were the biggest problems, starting with relationships, with emotions, with drinking and drugs, with money. Again, it's not her fault that the family has, but be careful what you wish for, a healthy relationship or an adventure, the train of terror.
3.Social skills. Want your beloved to know to have fun, to make people to plate. Your sweetheart PR of the site, it is part of your image, and you promotes the image in social circles. It would be good for your sweetheart to cope in any situation, social or like to go into town for juice, or a disco, theatre, cinema or parties.
4.Communication skills. Most relationships are bad not due to the lack of compatibility and because of the impossibility of communication . It would be ideal as your sweetheart knows their needs to communicate, to know, to demand what he wants, and not to expect that you are forecasting needs. To know to tell when something's bothering you, that maybe you don't understand and know to Express my gratitude for the good things you are doing in your relationship.
5.The spirit of adventure and an open mind. These qualities are important in order to have the lifestyle excellent. It is important to charge trips and excursions, not only clubs. If you're not happy with a tent no need to torture :D you can stay in hostels and hotels, but it is important fee to get on and off. One of the most important and comprehensive in order to for a person to go out in nature, so make sure to charge the work is. If you do not like, you know, giving him a few events that will definitely make him want more.
6.To have a personality and found her way in life. The model parent, which I mentioned earlier, many women had the impression that the man needs to do their job, and they have to sit at home and do household. It is obvious that the tasks it is good to be divided, but must, as your sweetheart want to realize something in life, to be a person, independent and not define your relationship. Feel to have her way in life, to open their Hobbies and talents. You will not meet so to do what you like in life. If it will take all the satisfaction from relationships at some time will become only the dependence from the relationship and from you and you will never have neither you life .
7.To have money, they. Again, a very important thing.Don't have to be rich, but you need to know to make money, how to understand how to make money and what their value was. The woman is bad or money is ready will give you a lot of hassle in the long run to all the frustrations and inferiority complexes will come to the surface and you will bite you on the bottom.
8.He loves Board clean. Obviously, don't be obsessed with neatness and wipe the dust in the morning, afternoon and evening. It could be I could write to understand myself, but if a woman puts a hand to clean the table or throw dirty Laundry in the hamper, RUN as much as you can.
9.To think positive and not to criticize ( too much). A woman who knows how to promote themselves on you when things aren't going well, is a blessing. Women have the gift of the console, and it's useful to have near you someone who, to relieve suffering when it inevitably occurs. It is very important to be optimistic. The woman who critique and the pessimistic that see only half empty Cup you will finish mental.
10.To care for her body through diet and sport. We men. We love physique women. To go to the gym and give him money to make healthy food instead of a hamburger. This is the best investment, it is possible that you can make for your sexual life, your health and your relationships.
11.He loves the Board, children and animals. As well as the nature, if a woman loves children and animals, there is a problem in the head and possibly kill you in your sleep. To FLEE from such women.
I wrote 11 things that came to mind.