We look for fears, shortcomings and problems of man, and spend half way. Trying to convey part of our lives and the light in each other's lives and thus after a while we say that we do not recognize. And is not love. It's an attempt to teach someone to teach and correct. And in love you love and shortcomings. It is clear that if love is mutual, the other will do everything possible to eliminate those shortcomings. Everything connects, doesn't it?
If we loved only perfect people, probably, we will not be able to love anyone. No, we will not be able to appreciate. After all, true love and unconditional is the one that finds perfection in each other's imperfection. When you find yourself appealing, even if it's awkward when the tiles, all the skills they are clumsy when you love no matter what, only then you can say that you feel for someone something.
Their whims and pleasure of the moment give in to love. We are approaching someone more than we are with the rest of the world precisely because we believe otherwise. When we don't care about defects or flaws. Then we want to extend to eternity, time, tenderness, happiness, love. We feel to hug or kiss, and not a gesture inappropriate. We love to criticize, to see shortcomings, but even more we love, to love truly, not so whether?