I don't like people who talk a lot, but does not assume what I say. After you have asked me to go out for coffee, this is for you to fulfill the promise. So can I trust you and respect you.
If during the day there are other things more important, you should me about it. So I will understand that I respect. It's not right have I, as well, if not him, whether you attention in the last 5 minutes that can't get out.
I don't know why most people think that if they promise certain things, others will have more confidence. Promise, but do nothing, and then. For this reason, we have love and friends, being stranded, people are upset and disappointed. No need to promise anything, just need to go directly to the facts.
For this reason, forbid people in my life to add to phrase his words,"I promise." I don't need empty words, lies. I need honesty, respect, facts. Doesn't say anything, just go to action. Just.
And don't accept until now, the expression "forever". Nothing, it's not forever. Nothing belongs to us – people loved to material things. One day the youth is replaced by old age. The walls of the house at some point, will need reconstruction.
Everything wears out. Nothing and nobody belongs to us, even the people we love tremendously. I'm not saying we're going to live together, because at any time you are free to go, and I'm the same – I have the right to choose. No need to let yourself get carried away and think that you will love your whole life to only one person.
This is not so. Life is unpredictable, and a lover in one day you can leave or you can understand that, actually, you never have been. It was just an attachment, a habit, not love. No promises! Life does not require vows. People don't crave the sweet words. They need facts, emotions, feelings unexplained. Humanity's thirst for an intense life, not words without meaning.