Long standing relationships takes years to create... It takes a great deal of understanding, tolerating and forgiveness to acheive this... How is a relationship made?!... Every human being is created with hundreds of invisible tentacles that carry impulses described by our likes and dislikes, our dos and donts, our hobby and every substance that stimulates our emotional being... When two persons interact, communication skills reveal the impulses transmitted by the individual tentacles and once one or more tentacles from both persons transmit the same impulses, they instantly connect...literally, their tentacles join and form a connection (like a usb cord from one phone to another)... Once there is a disagreement between these persons, the connection is lost temporarily usually becuase communication becomes poor or there a faulty connection between two tentacles producing opposing impulses...and most times the only way to reconnect is to recommunicate....
In English, as friends or parthners, we are all connected to one another by invisible strings, the more the strings that connects us together, the stronger our relationship.. But like every string, spiritual or physical, it can be broken... Once there is a break in one or more connection between strings, disagreements ensue..the more the strings broken, the worse the relationship becomes... The only way to get the string back together is to recommunicate...i.e. Talk to each other about it...if you fail to recommunicate, the connection might be lost forever and the relationship will wither...
Moral of the tale... If you have a problem with your partner, talk about it... If you dont, then you are on a one way street to loosing your relationship...