Love is work, true work places a conscious responsibility on you.
For any work, a good cerebral plan leads to productivity,
Creativity makes work much more outstanding.
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True, enduring love doesn't just flow naturally,
It comes from two hearts, wholly knit into one.
There is a love grind.
Love grind is what sustains relationships and keeps it as healthy as possible.
That is the magic in the fairytale stories.
Love is like a fire. Once sparked, it usually goes out, but it can grow into big waves of fire, if combustible materials are brought to it.
Love isn't self sustaining, it feeds on actions, on work.
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Love grows where it is fed and desired.
You have to be intentional about LOVE.
Don't leave it to luck, don't leave it to chances, don't leave it to nature.
You have to be intentional about the work.
And excuse me, love work doesn't have to be expressed in an expensive way.
Most times, we focus on the big things we wish we could do and in the process miss the miracle of the little things.
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Don't wait to buy her a garden when a single rose flower can work magic.
Don't wait till you get a car when you can stroll under the skies, with the one you love in your hand.
The magic of thd free God-given blessings.
You don't have enough dough to visit the beach with the one you love, get the water hose on and play around the garden, gallopping here and there.
Get water guns and unleash the children in you.
If you can't afford cinema ticket, get your laptop or your cable tv, and cuddle next to eachother, enjoy the magic it brings.
There is magic in the little things, and those are the things that stick to memory the easiest.
How you kissed her in public, grabbed her ass on the bus, tickled her on her birthday,played like kids in the rain.
i found out the worth of gifts to your lover isnt how much ypu bought it, its how much they calue it. Thats lovers maths.
Togetherness is the spirit of work. Doing what she appreciates and what he appreciates.
Find those priceless things and make magic out of them.
The free things we count as insignificamt, house the greatest magic.
Creativity flows from a heart willing to work. You will easily convert ordinary to extraordinary.
Dont underestimate the power of simple actions. So simple as taking a trip, seeing your lady, walk to her and whisper i love you and run away without waiting for a reply.That will imprint something on her heart forever.
Or giving her a surprise visit.
Kidnap her from work, yes, i mean get your friends to kidnap her and organise a pizza party if she is a foodie or somethingout of the blues. But please be careful and make sure she isnt a black belter or else, you're going to need a massage if you're lucky enough not to get stitches.
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Even if you are a water burner, still get into the kitchen and cook what you can. If its too salty or too peppery, just cook it.
It feels good to be treated kingly or queenly.
Surprise your man too, as simple as a surprise kiss.
Do the things he doesn't expect from you.
Tell him i love you for no just reason, kiss his forehead and whisper you are the best in the whole world.
Treat him the way you want to be treated sometimes, tell him to bring his head and rest on your laps. Treat him like a baby. And say words to him, that encourage him even when he doesnt look like he needs it.
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Work but Don't loose yourself in trying to surprise your lover.
Don't get carried away in focusing on the big stuffs while ignoring the grass roots.
Laziness is not encouraged, surprise big too. But when you can't, do with the stuffs you got around.