In a time of stress, It is hard when your struggling and you can't reach out to people and friends who you know and you would have been their time of need. Now I really know how it feels.

When I was making my decisions! I was told not to and when you associate yourself with people who admire values and asset it's hard to communicate with them when you are downsizing.
You just have to do what you need to do and pray that they will have your back. Just hold you or even a phone call to say it will be ok or to tell you don't give up, don't commit a crime cause honestly nobody knows what they will do until their in an situation. And even though you need to stay strong and you know that sometimes hearing it helps