We must not follow a standard that everyone does, the best way to do it is the way you like it. There is no need to live by charging yourself and trying to do it the way others do.
The best way to do it is the way you like it, the important thing is to do it the best way you can.
Live your way, do it your way...
Nobody can be happy living the way and the way others want you to live. It could all be going wrong and everything falling apart for you, even so try to do it your way, at least you tried and did it your way.
It is necessary to seize the opportunities and do it our own way, that's the only way we can explore new territories, and rediscover ourselves.
The adventure waits for no one, except for yourself... So get on with your story and do it your way.