Recently, there was an unusual fire in the post. This makes me still single after 90, I can not help but sigh. Not only that, I also found an ancient nation, but still has a unique record in the world: no widow!
The girls there were married three times in their life, the first time they were 7-9 years old, married to fruits, second times to marry the sun, and third to marry their husband.
In Nepal, known as the "Smiling Buddha state", the ancient nation is called the Nepal, and when the girls do not understand love, they have a marriage that is accompanied by a lifetime.
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First wedding
"At least one desperate love in life" is not popular here because "there are at least two marriages in their lives". Love is nothing but love and growth.
If your first husband is a nut called "Baer nut", will you accept it? It is always faithful to you and always shelters you.
The wedding is called "fruit wedding", also called "Yi Xi". When the girl is eight or nine years old, you may find it unbelievable. Although it is the same green fruit, the ceremony is as formal as a formal wedding.
The parents find a fruit for the girl as a bridegroom, and marry the girl to the fruit bridegroom. It is said to represent men's health, longevity and emotional specificity.
On the wedding day, the girl was dressed in gorgeous clothes and painted with bridal makeup, with innocent smiles on her childish face.
After the wedding ceremony, parents will wrap up Baer's bridegroom with a piece of red cloth and let the girl keep it close to him. From now on, Baer will become their most loyal husband.
In fact, the girl is married to courage
"Yi Xi" is the eternal marriage in the eyes of Nepalese. It is hard and immortal, while "secular marriage" is short and false.
If they want to get rid of their families, just put Baer's fruit on their husbands' pillow, and then they will regained their freedom.
But this marriage, in fact, gives the girl unlimited courage, in the future life, cherish their courage, the courage to abandon the unhappy life, the courage to choose a happy life.
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The second wedding
Girls who have had fruit wedding ceremonies have to hold a "kiln house" ceremony. The ceremony was held at the time of the girl's menarche. The wedding groom was the sun.
At this time, girls should be confined to a room without light, usually upstairs. The girl will stay for 11 days. The food will be transmitted by a middle-aged woman. She can not be seen by outsiders, especially by men.
On the twelfth day, the girl must get up before the sun rises, bathe, smear ointment on her body, and be blindfolded to the roof platform.
At this time the sun rose, the girl's blindfold was untied and the sun began to worship. This is actually a cleansing ceremony.
After the purification of the black house, she became a grown woman to welcome the formal wedding.
It's an adult gift to know yourself
After 11 days of solitude, girls will understand the way of life. No one can always walk together. Loneliness is something that must be experienced.
Every girl is worthy of an immortal and happy love, but you are not living for one person or thing, you are yourself. Before you love everything, you are the first to love yourself.
Because at this moment, you already have a heart of nuts and a warm smile like the sun.
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The third wedding
Most of them are married by the words of the media, the fate of their parents, and then the courtesy ceremony.
The traditional wedding ceremony in Nepal is carried out in two parts. Most ceremonies are carried out in the bride's house. The wedding is presided over by the Brahman priests. There are dozens of procedures and the worship of the gods. The main procedure is called "gneya Daan" in the Nepalese language.
After the third wedding, the girl really grew up and became a wife and a mother. She joined hands with her husband.
In addition to the unique marriage customs, Nepal has a "women's Day".
On women's day every year, Nepalese married women gather in groups to come to the river to wash their bodies.
Unmarried girls pray for a handsome husband and a happy marriage.