We understand that starting out as an escort can seem a little tough at first, which is why we have taken some advice from some of the top escorts in London, and put together some of the best tips of the trade for new escorts who are just starting out.
o As long as you’re careful, STD’s shouldn’t be a problem.
Be very careful and always use condoms. Luckily, most clients will know this, unless you have specifically stated otherwise, so there’s no need to mention them when booking, just make sure they’re available at the right moment. Unless agreed, refuse everyone who wants company without a condom and get a sexual health check-up regularly and always get the all clear.
o Escorting covers all manner of companionship.
From going to shows, casinos, out on private yachts and jets, to resorts and hotels although the norm is your standard incall or outcall. The odder things are usually down to fetishes, wrestling, tickling… you name it, someone’ll ask for it. The most important thing is though, no matter who you see, whether they are sportspeople, celebrities, politicians etc. is to remain discreet.
Set your own boundaries and stick to them.
A lot of people will want things you don’t offer. Some will ask up front, which is great because you can say no and block them if necessary. In the moment, sometimes it can be a bit more awkward, so make sure your client knows your boundaries from the outset, and don’t be afraid or embarrassed to say no, if you are asked to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable. This is especially important if you offer the GFE to your clients. Some might take this too far, so it is important that they know that they are paying for a service, and they cannot contact you outside of this time.
o Set yourself apart, it keeps your client base.
You can tell whether a client has seen an escort before, but either way you want them to see you again (most of the time!) so work out a way to make clients feel comfortable. If you are naturally quite a relaxed person and easy to talk to, focus on body language and signs that your clients give you, especially new ones. A great tip is also to learn how to do Thai, Swedish and Tantric massage which is found to be an excellent way to help the mood and destress a nervous client.
o You can still have sex in your free time.
For many escorts, they know that this is just a job, and can detach it from their home life. Many will have partners or even husbands outside of work, and still enjoy a healthy sex life with them. If you cannot detach from work and personal life, you will not last long in the escort business.
Avoiding Time Wasters
You’ll get people who will just want free phone sex and it is difficult to navigate – you can usually tell in the booking stages. If they just ask a lot of irrelevant questions that don’t link, or bring it back to you right now, i.e. what you’re wearing, try and make it about the job, ask what they would like you to wear when you meet for example. Keep talking about the booking but if all else fails just hang up and block. You’ll get an intuition about it; for example, if you have clients who, when they were on the phone they’ve asked a lot of questions and it turns out they’ve just been new and nervous compared with those who confidently book an appointment, hang up and never show.
References:
Reddit; Ask Me Anything [Accessed 10th April 2017]
How To Become An Escort; How Escorts Can Avoid Time Wasters [Accessed 10th April 2017]