Anyone can work at being the best version of themselves however it cannot be handed to you on a silver platter. You have to work at it. A journey of self-actualization and self-love. Constantly reminding ourselves that we are important and that we matter. What helped me in my journey of growth is learning to let go. Let go of whatever it is that doesn’t serve you or do you right or any justice. It may be a job, a person, a situation. Drop it all! Instead focus on what builds you, makes you happy and a better human being. Wherever you place your focus is essential. We turn into where we are tuned into and aligned to.
It all starts with how you see yourself. It’s all about you. You may not feel worthy or good about yourself and that should be your starting point. Your image and perception of what you have or view yourself is rather important, much more than what anyone thinks of you. People’s perception of you can always change but that what you think of yourself will always stay with you and best believe it will live on. Forever. Not unless you change It.!
We come to earth with the same full potential and all tools necessary to turn you into a magnificent being. We are nowhere near our full potential if the environment we are at in does not serve us. We need to be in the right environment if self-growth is so desired. Just like a plant that needs watering, air and sunlight to grow, we are not any different. For there to be change and growth we have to surround ourselves and our thoughts with people and things which have our best interests at heart. Love yourself 100 and accept yourself as well. Just the way you are. That skin, that body, love it. its you and it’ll never change. Embrace the totality of your full existence.
Thinking of things that do not serve us, constantly blaming others for what we feel inside is a big blunder most of us pit ourselves at. You need to take 100% full responsibility for our internal conditions. We have full control of what we feel and only you can give permission to another to make you feel some type of way. The power lies behind us. Do not externalize your power!
Thinking of someone that doesn’t serve us rather, it only drains our energy. We need to focus and think of those situations and people who love us and want the best for us. Thinking of people who don’t even care and like us is like giving them some sort of red carpet treatment and in tur we place them at higher place as we bow down to them like they own us! Ha-ha! rolls eyes dramatically
Let go of fear, stop living in the mind and start living in the heart. The heart knows no fear until you think of something, and that’s the secret! Thoughts are like text messages, whatever it is you think of, you draw to you. Whatever you focus on, you give energy to. Are you focusing on what raises or tear your spirit? Focus on what elevates you, because it grows. Stop giving red carpet treatment to those who don’t deserve it.
Don’t let someone give you vale, you will lose yourself and self-confidence. Instead, leave from your heart and be yourself. Better be you, than a poor version of someone else. Love YOU!