A few years ago when we were enjoying at assembly hall . one queer fish thought click on my mind about love because a few members of my company was maniac about love that’s why i try to make fun …
“Someone define love,”I said.
No response,
“Doesn’t anyone want to try,? I asked.
still silence was there
“Tell you what, I’ll define it,and you raise your hand.,If you agree.
yes??
“Love is key to live,” answered by an expected person.
What is your mean ?? life is not possible without love or we cann’t go without love??
if it is right then how can we expect life of single man . they don’t have any support, any love . But they are happy how ??
The acceptance of 'what' is real happiness.
LOVE SCALE
The world has some major rules about love .Sometimes we say mother-child is real love. is it love?? We have to think about it>
-if this love is real then why mother leave her child to move while she know that if he try to move he will fall down and may be get injury .
and we said it is love>
and if spouse love is real love then what turns them to divorce condition sometimes even they don’t wanna see to each-other.why?? when they loves each-other.
Couple makes promises years ago “I cann’t live without you ,you are my life ,impossible to imagine a world without you .You are my oxygen and many more…” .but after sometime when a misunderstanding take place between them,They started blaming to each-other without knowing the reason. If one party get ready to surrender ,second start making a fuss.. We forget that pompous promises … what is this ??
(This para remind me about one of my friends shub)
Sudden another bestiee replied me- “”Love is an unconditional part of our life .If anyone come and say I Love You ,. and insisting you on falling in love That’s not pure love .you have to wait ,take some time to understand it.and think too about it what brings you here?? and if you use words wisely,you can learn to recognize ,what kind of love you are feeling,and enjoy the different kind of love.
if love is unconditional then why we create barrier to our partner way like that “you cann’t go there ,you have to tell me before doing anything,you cann’t behave like this ,etc. and another side we said :”your happiness is mine “.Second one also has own life and right to live free then why we use our terms and conditions?? it can be love ??
ALL WERE SEEING ME WITH KILLING EYES.-“WHAT IS LOVE ??”
Yaa ”right question-
What is LOVE-
LOVE is only creation of our mind,It can be change by our thinking .it depends on only “How we think AND What we think”.if we think positive about someone then we ignore their bad activities and we said it’s common error to all . and when when start negative thinking then positiveness hard to get ,In HINDI if we said “pyar, kya hai” and “kya,pyar hai ” both sentences are poles apart ,First needs define to love and second wants to be clear about love
Affection is not love it can be show-off .We make pompous to impress someone.according to some mind love also has states-
States of love;
Storge: Natural affection, that love you share with you family.
Philia: The love that you have for friends.
Eros: Sexual and erotic desire kind of love. (positive or negative)
Agape: Unconditional love or divine love.
Ludus: Playful love,like childish love or flirting.
Pragma: Long standing love, the love in married couple.
Philautia: Love of the self .(negative or positive)
If we can parts of love it means it also play an important role in our life ,But still we are confused what type of love we have ?
But i am sure if you don’t have “PHILAUTIAcouple” then you are not able to love anyone and plzz don’t expect love too. First we have to love yourself .
“IF YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO FIND LOVE WITHIN YOU,
YOU WILL NEVER FIND IT OUTSIDE YOU”
In fact, it’s really not that ethereal or supernatural. On the contrary,it’s pretty practical and down-to earth. Our hearts take cues from our senses. Everything we see, hear, taste , touch or smell teaches us about universe. We don’t need to contemplate or ask questions . Our sensory organs report to our brains , and our brain collect the data and send to the heart, So, if we see loving smile , hear loving word ,Or feel a loving touch , the brain processes this information and conclude. ”Hey ; We are being loved right now’
Then it is clear that love is creation of our mind and thinking.and main difficult task is to maintain it .
LOVE vs LUST :
Love and lust have four words in their spell but their meaning has lots of change . Physical connection is most over-eated thing in this word . Especially in the starting of relationship it is hard to find difference between love and lust .Both are bonded with physical attraction ,some chemical reacts insist you to come closer to another person, we said it long-lasting love.
“Love is something that is cultivated between two peoples and grows over time . through getting to know him or her and experiencing life’s many ups and down together. it involve trust , commitment, loyalty, acceptance.
Lust, on the other hand express the wrongly but we never mind it .we think only sex is the only better proof of true love .lust blur our ability to see a person for who he or she truly is and consequently, it may or may not lead a long-term relationship.”
The ideal intimate relationship scenario ,some might say involve a balanced combination of love and lust. After all lusting after someone is typically and important early phase of a long term partnership and reigniting that initial spark is a practice worth cultivating for committed couples.
I LOVE PHILIA STATE OF LOVE
what enjoy you get to annoying your friends that love you cann’t get anywhere.no promise, no show-off only real is acceptable .Because…
“WHERE THERE IS FAITH ,THERE IS BETRAYAL ALSO”
friendship is a such kind of love which has no line of control …It can be sillyness or love .
”we don’t know what promises we made years ago ,and don’t care about it also ..it’s new morning with new promise..Lets enjoy,.. promise …Go to hell …
Whole world is waiting for you, so why are you waiting for other, lets come and chill..
”IF WE ARE SEARCHING REAL LOVE IN THIS WORLD, IT’S ONLY OUR IMAGINATION”