1. Enough to idealize.
When we reject the ideals and accept your partner the way he is, then we find happiness.
2. Before accusing a partner, find another solution.
Abstracted from the personalities and focus on the fact problems. And they immediately become easier to solve.
3. Understand when you need to retreat and pull away.
When relations become difficult, sometimes it seems that there are only two options: change partner, or sacrifice themselves trying to please him. At such moments, you just need to take a step back, cool down from emotions and it is good to think about all this. .
4. Learn to listen more than words partner.
Look and listen deeper than your partner does and says. Pay attention to his intentions is even some form of respect. Listen to your heart, eyes, ears.
5. To learn to accept the shortcomings of others, learn to accept its drawbacks.
Acknowledge your fears, dependencies, shortcomings, imperfections. Trust your partner with everything. Learn to make and its features.
6. Understand that sometimes things will not go according to plan. And that's fine.
Remember that your partner is not you, and that he might be wrong. Most importantly — do you love him? If Yes, then love.
7. Give thanks and not complain.
Complaining is pathetic. Better focus on what you can be grateful to your partner. You want to make him feel bad, and to love each other? When you stop complaining, you will become happier. And the partner would do what you want, wanting to please you.
8. Give yourself to love, no matter what happens.
This is unconditional love. It means to love someone, no matter how he answered you in moments of anger and irritation. It means to love him when he can say something to intentionally hurt you, because inside struggling with his own pain.
9. Decide to make the relationship better every day.
Happiness should be your goal. Select which features of partner you are the hardest to take. Rate which ones are the most difficult. And then start with the easiest and work to learn to accept it.
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