I keep hearing the phrase “ everything happens for a reason”, but the more time passes the more I question this ....and what reason is that ? What is the reason why we have to endure so much? Why do mothers have to lose their children ? Why do men beat their wives ? Why do the people we love just walk away ? Why do people have to suffer horrible sicknesses ? I constantly hear it happens for a reason, it makes you stronger , it’s part of a bigger plan. Sometimes I feel it’s not part of a bigger plan. Sometimes it really just breaks a person. There is oh so much one person can handle. Eventually the pressure just breaks them.