Assalamualaikum wr...wb
How fast friends?
No one has failed?
Who is myself? The question that exists in each person. One does not ask to be born from the womb of whom? Takdirlah that bind us was born on a family.
The process of self learning starts from individual families. Whether it be happy, miserable, terlunta-lunta, get lots of affection, ketercukupan treasures, religious learning, full of strong discipline, pampered, even brought up for the crime, and so on.
Blessed if one was born to a family of educated, wealthy, affectionate, and feel strong religious, caring, self-reliance, and never give up in life.
What if someone was born to a family of deficient, surely the process of life he lived not selurus toll road. Full of twists and turns of life, the bitter ketirnya of life, and should strive to be yourself in order to succeed in his life.
One lives in the world is not easy. There is the struggle of a mother who raised him, while his son sick mom and dad digging to treat the child. Beds not willing just to keep the children when ill. When there are mosquitos who menggigitnya the mother as if not willingly. Give to eat until he, as well as adult education to the highest level.
When children have become adults, parents do not worry about releasing his son to fight hard in this life, looking for various necessities of life, work, socialize, pick a husband/wife as an escort, and decide every issue life-term fall.
If life was easy?
Live it's "not easy " there's life in the process of social aberrations. If someone does not maximize the function of brain, mind and mind, refrain to do negative, not wrong to hang out, do not go to drugs, gambling, liquor, crime, etc. Someone could be "Satan's" humanoid. Attitude and behaviour contrary to the norm. Violation of the law. Not ethical, abusive, etc.
A person instead of doing useful things for himself, family, and others. Thus it will be a source of problems. Trigger social problems. The perpetrator of the crime. Activities detrimental to others.
Such person if he behaves that way his life is fraught with failure. Although God Almighty can give guidance if wanted.
So life isn't easy. If foster can be fatal as a result. Someone could be a very good or even became criminals snapper class with many categories.
Striving to be good people as well is not easy. There are many factors that influence in one's life. Education, health, livelihood and life.
Foremost is public and religious education. Religious education to distinguish where religion is allowed where and which are prohibited. While the general public education on science as a life skills to survive so that healthy and get a good job.
If we are good, then the wife/husband and children we would also be nice. Education, jobs, livelihood and life. All of it should always be coupled with prayer so that what does get a blessing from Allah SWT. Hopefully we can live this life by doing a lot of good. (Aamiin)