Anyone can get angry. Angry is easy. But being angry at the right person, with the right level, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in a good way, is not easy. "
Being able to master emotions, often people underestimate the problem. In fact, brain intelligence alone is not enough to deliver a person to achieve success. Precisely, good emotional control becomes an important factor determining the success of one's life. Emotional intelligence is a mental picture of someone intelligent in analyzing, planning and solving problems, ranging from mild to complex.
With this intelligence, one can understand, recognize, and choose their qualities as human beings. People who have emotional intelligence can understand others well and make decisions wisely. Moreover, this intelligence is closely related to how one can apply what he learns about happiness, loving and interacting with others. He also knows the purpose of his life, and will be responsible in everything that happens in his life as a testament to the high emotional intelligence he has. Emotional intelligence is more focused on achieving "invisible" life's success.
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Success can be achieved when someone can make a deal
by engaging emotions, feelings and interactions with each other. Evidently, the achievement of material success does not guarantee the satisfaction of one's heart. In 1990, Emotional Intelligence (also known as "EQ"), was introduced through the world market. It is stated that one's ability to deal with and use emotions appropriately in any form of interaction is more necessary than one's intelligence (IQ).
Now, let's see, how emotions can turn any limitations into something extraordinary.
A wealthy millionaire in the United States, Donald Trump, is a slick example of this. In 1980 to 1990, Trump was known as a successful real estate entrepreneur, with an estimated personal fortune of one billion US dollars. Two books were successfully written at the peak of his career, namely "The Art of The Deal and Surviving at the Top". But Trump's path is not always smooth. You remember the depression that hit the world in the late 1990s? At that time the price of property shares also dropped drastically. Until overnight, Trump's life became quite the opposite.
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Trump is dependent on this property business must bear the debt of 900 million US Dollar! Even the World Bank has predicted bankruptcy. Some friends who suffered the same fate thought that this was the end of their lives, to actually end his life by suicide. Here Trump's emotional intelligence is thoroughly tested. How not, when he expects sympathy from his ex-wife, he is actually asked to provide all the remaining property as compensation for their divorce. People who are regarded as his close friends left him just like that. A very supportive reason for Trump to despair and surrender to life. But that was not done. Trump sees it as an opportunity to work and change things. Although financially he has lost everything, but there is an "intangible asset" that he still has. Yes, Trump has strong business experience and understanding, which is far more valuable than all his wealth has ever seen!
What happens next ?. Fantastic, six months later Trump has managed to make the biggest deal in the history of his business. Three years later, Trump is able to earn a profit of US $ 3 billion. He also managed to write back his latest book entitled "The Art of The Comeback". In this book Trump tells how the bankruptcy that happened to him makes it more wise, strong and focused than ever before. In fact he thought, if only the accident did not happen, then he will never know his real friends and will not make him richer than the previous ones. Incredible is not it?
Emotional Intelligence gives a person the determination to rise from failure, also to bring strength to someone to dare to face fear. Not as well as brain intelligence or IQ, emotional intelligence is present to everyone and can be developed.
How to Train and Improve Emotional Intelligence
1.Always live with courage.
Exercise and daring to try new things will provide a variety of experiences and open minds with other possibilities in life
2.Always responsible for everything.
This will be a way to gain the trust of others and control us not to give up easily. "Being accountable is being dependable"
3.Dare to get out of comfort zone.
Trying to get out of the comfort zone will allow us to explore many things
4.Recognize fear and try to deal with it.
Doing this will build confidence and can be a guarantee that everything must have a solution.
5.Be humble.
Want and dare to admit mistakes in life can actually improve the quality of our self-worth.
So, master your emotional intelligence! Because controlling emotions is one of the important factors that can control you to succeed and also enjoy the colorful life.