Who does not feel hurt when betrayed, what else is betraying is someone who we obviously believe, that we love and care for, then it really hurts will never be forgotten.
It was very real to feel in this heart because it was so painful that the feeling of disappointment. If that is the case then forgiving and forgetting will be very difficult for us to do.
But do we have to let our hearts keep burning? No, we must be good at overcoming it. That is learning to be sincere, because sincerity is the best way to be calm again.
Who does not feel sick, does not feel angry, disappointed, and hate when betrayed, then surely everyone will experience such pain.
But people who continue to learn sincerely, then of course some of the feelings mentioned above will not stay long in the heart, so to forgive is no longer a difficult thing.
And of course the desire to reciprocate is very natural in the heart, because we will never be able to escape the ego at any time.
However, we as servants who always want to expect the love of God, are obliged to fight the taste, if we do not want we really act foolish and will despise before God.
Then what about him who arbitrarily hurts, betrays, and deceives us, should we just leave him without guilt?
Yes, just leave him alone without being patient, because when we are tormented, God really has prepared a reply for him. So, let him have fun first, then meet his karma.
Continue to be sincere, because with sincerity we will easily believe that God's retribution must be more perfect.
With us sure that such thing, then we will be busy to hate, busy to grudge we will never do it.
With sincerity too, we will realize that every act will return. So, We don't need to dirty our hearts by constantly hating and vindictive.
Because later when God has already spoken, really the pain he feels will be worse than what we feel now.