Have you ever felt deeply attached to something that you can never let go of this strong unbreakable urge to keep this thing to yourself only? Have you ever felt this?
When people are asked to define the term obsession, many will have something to say, obsession In my terms is the inability to let go of someone or something in an unhealthy way.
Unhealthy that we are blinded by this desire to have the person or things all to ourselves not minding a bit if the person gets extremely hurt in the process which makes us less human as that conscience part of us is lost.
Obsession does have a way to make us feel there is absolutely nothing wrong with what we do as all we do is seen as a good thing to us.
Just like I mentioned in my post here the thing line between love and lust so is there a thin one between lust and obsession? You see our inability to maintain our lustful desire which leads to addiction turns into an obsession that takes over our self-control in stopping it.
Let’s see a setting whereby there is a female musician who is well-loved by her fans, and there seems to be this fan of hers that love her that he has every album of hers, he can sing perfectly every lyric to her song and if given the stage, he can dance exactly she did in every dance video of hers. Is that term normal to you? I mean there is no harm in that right?
But what happens when this fan of hers became a stalker in the need to get closer to the musician? which brought fear to the heart of the musician as she always feels someone's present following her without seeing anyone when she turns back.
This isn’t healthy for the fans and neither is it for the musician. And then the fans turned stalker one day approached the musician in a friendly manner with a hidden agenda which we know of and got closer to her to the extent that he got the key to her house and would sneak in to see her bath, I don’t know to you but this seems utterly unhealthy to me.
But to the musician at that moment she had found a good friend which she likes and who probably makes her heartbeat and as they say, love is blind, it blinded her to see that toxic trait of his in keeping her all to himself, getting angry if she speaks to a guy or spends time with someone, it became so choky until one day her eyes got opened and she was able to see who he was… she was able to see the obsession beneath his eyes and she wants out but how can she be freed from the grasp of an obsessed being or how can she help him kill his obsession.
But can the obsession part be killed? Is it possible for her to be saved we all know well what happens if she says the word we need to end this relationship?
He will go berserk or might try to be nice about it but deeply, he has his plans.. Do you remember the definition I gave about obsession? That is the inability to let go of someone or something in an unhealthy way. We can see she doesn’t want him but he isn’t going to have that, as long as he is concerned she is his to keep as he owns her and he would hurt whatever may be the obstacle to him having her.
Just as I recommend the movie ‘Addicted' in my previous post here as mentioned earlier, so do I recommend the movie ‘Obsessed’ a 2009 movie starring Beyonce, you know the well-loved musician? Wife to Jay Z and mother to Blue Ivy? Yeah, that’s the one. Enjoy and don’t forget to get yourself popcorn and a drink to go while at it.
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Still yours truly,
Balikis.
Thanks for reading and listening.
Peace be unto those who crave it and more to those who chase it away.
