A true life story
A man with some disabilities got to the age of getting a wife who will be his companion.
He started searching for a wife but it was difficult to get a woman who will accept him in his condition.
In African countries it looks like an unreasonable thing for an able bodied physically fit to accept a disabled Man for marriage and its same on the side of the man.
This young man was not financially stable making it more difficult for him to find a wife.
He kept on searching for so many years, finally he meet with a young lady in her mid 30's who accepted his hand in marriage, friends and family were so happy that he found a wife and he himself was also very happy.
The lady was expecting love, care and respect from both the husband and his family but she was disappointed 😞
She's a very hard working lady which motivated the man to marry her.
Before and after the marriage
Before the marriage the man wasn't honest enough to tell the lady that he was totally dependent on his family rather he lied to her, he told her he had so many business, he even put some tricks and pretense during the fiance visit just to convince her that he hustles so hard to fecth for his family.
After marriage so many things start popping up, wow 😳 this guy is not who really he claims to be, he doesn't work, he sleeps all day, he's so lazy 🙄 and hes not what she thought.
Thats bad, she asked the man please why did you lie to me, the man made so many excuses but non where valid.
Gradually things start getting thougher for the woman, she had to do so many things just to make the marriage work out but it wasn't easy because the trust is no more.
Matters became worse
Matters became more difficult to handle when the family of the man came interfering in the marriage, they always wants the man to do just what they want without caring about how the wife may feel.
She became so bittered and so fraustated, she lived everyday of her life on regrets, she has no child and the man never care about her, so 😞 bad.
What will she do at this point? Should she live her marriage or should she continue with the depressing condition.
She was confused.
She kept on wondering what she will do, worst of the whole matter is that she had some health problem that needed medical attention and no one cares.
The man kept fraustating her, he drinks, he smokes and hr gambles and all this where unknown to the lady before they got married.
The man nags on everything and its much ready for violent act.
One morning the husband woke her up and asked her to leave his house for good, she was embittered in her soul.
Well a few months later the man finally sent her out of the house with the reason that she doesn't feed and house him.
She gladly left in peace.
What could have gone wrong? Could it be she wasn't a good wife? Was she expecting too much? Why did she just leave?
Personally i think she didn't get enough information about the man before coming to the marriage because she trusted that all he said were nothing but the truth.
I also think maybe she was expecting too much from the man knowing that he has some physical disability.
Please tell me if you are in her place what will you have done.
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