I love you
Those words means a lot to me but not just enough to prove that you really love me.
When you understand my love language i will also understand yours definitely no doubt that our relationship will grow to something better but if you don't understand my love language it will be difficult for me to believe that you really love me.
My love language
Before I tell you my love language lets firstly get a definition of love language.
Love language simple means the way someone expresses his or her love to you, and they way you also express that you love the person in response to his or her love.
There are some people who are satisfied with just with mer words of i love you, even if someone gifted them they still will never believe they are loved unless they person spell it out.
I had a friend who had a boyfriend who was madly in love with her but the guy never professed his love verbally but on daily basis he kept on showering my friend with a whole lots of gift, i will always tell her that this guy really love her but she said he have not made it open.
After a while she started seeing another guy and i was really upset with her, she told me that she doesn't like a reserved person, the new guy was sending her love text message, love calls, cards and al the rest of them and that is her love language but thats not who i am.
There are some people who their love language is just act of service, they always want their partner to go out of his way to do somethings for them, some like it when i guy cooks or wash their clothes for them then they will believe that they are loved.
Other people think that only gift giving is enough to prove that you love them, when you give them quality gift then it means that you love, some other people love it when you spend quality time and touch them then they will believe that yes this person really love them.
What about me?
My love language is complex because i will have loved to have all love language but is not possible so I have say what really convinces me that a person loves me and that will be my love language.
It doesn't matter to me if you spend the whole day with me when there is no need for it but when am in need of your time you can't inconvenience yourself for me.
I love it when someone goes out of his way to help me that is the prize that comes with love, if you can't sacrifice something important to help me it will be very difficult for me to believe that you really love.
The care i always need maybe when am sick never give me excuses wether valid or invalid just make sure you will be available to help me, but unfortunately some people say that am selfish ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ž.
Even if you buy me the most expensive gift and you don't show up when there is need because its not convenient for you it will be difficult for me to believe that you love me.
I think i also like when someone spend an uninterrupted time with me, lol am a jealous type that why am like this.
Conclusion.
As humans have different personalities so our love language differs and love is sweet and beautiful when you meet with someone who is ready to speak your love language.