Do we always have to forgive? YES, AND YES, and WHY FORGIVE SOMEONE YOU DOESN'T DESERVE OUR FORGIVENESS, because
- It relieves a burden we supposed not to carry
2)I have come to understand that no one deserves our sadness.
Forgiveness can be one of the most difficult thing to do, letting go of the hurt, the past and the betrayal.
As a young innocent church girl, I gave my heart, my soul and all to this guy.
It all startecd after my secondary school, he came during my graduation, my parent was busy that they couldn't made it but he was there for me which made me feel deeply in love with him, I gave him my virginity. He introduced me to his family, friends and loved ones as his wife to be, you as a lady reading this will understand how excited I was, we dated for 4yrs because I was in school. Before I graduated, he located to Abuja in Nigeria for greener pasture, promising to come back for me. I had two guys seriously ready coming for me, because of him, I turned them down. My hope was high and I kept myself for this guy even in high institution, I told all my friends how we two will make a happy home.
One day, he called that I should get our village marriage list, he wants to come and pay my bride price, which my dad did, a date was fixed, rice and other things was bought, only for him to call that he was no longer interested.
The heart break is real 💔💔💔At first I was shocked, then sick, then shaking, then numb, then hurt, then sad, then broken.
So confused, so lost, so betrayed!
The loss of something that I thought was so special.
The loss of a best friend, a soul mate, someone who I trusted with my entire heart!
Allowing all the feels & all the emotions to come up. Like waves they come & go.
I know there is so much light, love & joy ahead…. I just need to get through the tunnel.
The thought of what will people say, what will my kins men say, how will my dad stand the shame, couldn't allow me to let go.
BUT for my sanity, because I was loosing it, for my family, for what the future holds, I need to forgive and let go.
They say everything is happening FOR us not too us. Sometimes it’s hard to see why… but trusting the Universe has my back
Today, am married to the love of my life with four beautiful kids.
FORGIVENESS MOST TIMES IS DIFFICULT, BUT TO BE FREE FROM BURDEN, YOU MUST FORGIVE.