Grow up is the right thing to do.
There is a big difference between growing up and growing old.
We all grow older if we are lucky enough to get the chance.
Sometimes there will be people who die young from illness, or accidents but normally if you live a good life you can grow old.
It is not your choice but the choice that God has made for you.
What I want to tell you today is this. If you do get the chance to grow old, learn to grow up as well. We all have dreams, and all of us cannot always fulfil the dream when things in our life happen.
Just remember that we plan but it is still up to God what happens.
Sometimes it is just bringing up kids, other times there can be other reasons. But it does not matter how old you get, you must always hold onto your dreams.
Even if you are old you might just get the chance to fulfil that dream and what a wonderful feeling it would be.
Remember we have only one chance to live our life, and if we do not make the best of it, it is lost for ever.
I am one of those lucky people who have a husband who helps me fulfil all my dreams. He has always just been a pillar of strength and he can motivate anyone.
We are really getting old now and there are not too many dreams that we had, that we did not fulfil. But one thing we both did we grew up and did not stay silly and expect things to come our way.
We both worked very hard at having a good marriage, wonderful children and the most wonderful grandchildren in the world.
We are now teaching them to fulfil their dreams as they still have time. It must be terrible to realise you are not going to be on this beautiful earth much longer and, you have not done anything you wanted to when you were young.
Youth if a privilege that should be enjoyed. But doing it in a grownup way is very important. If you do not grow up you will never be able to help your children to live the right way, and they will just do as they like.
Never rush into anything, work out how and when you want to do it. Then do it in a grownup way.
The word grownup might sound silly, but there are really people who grow older and never grow up. They are the ones who get into trouble and do not always have good lives.
I just want to say this is how we lived our lives and, we really enjoyed it. So there might be people who disagree with me, but that is their right. Everyone has a right to do with their life what they want, but just remember there is only one and, there will not be a second chance.
So think about this and have a wonderful day from me.