It is true that we are identified as human, some will say "we are one".
But you must agree with me that our wants and needs are different, so does our thoughts, perception towards things and of course our desires.
What Mr.A may want, need, think, desires and perceive maybe totally different from Mr.B.
So the earlier we begin to understand this, the better for us all as individual and that will help us when ever we are making important choices or dealing with people in our daily lives.
It has been know that the reason for disunity is because we fail to understand that what could take a second for a person to learn will take some hours, some days, some weeks, and some years.
So identify yourself and what you want and start becoming it , dont bother becoming someone else for whatsoever reason you will find it difficult in life it might start out well but by the time you know it, you are no longer liking it.
If you're someone who does thing because you see others do it you also need to change that habit and discover what fits you without being stressed out while doing it.
Some people are happy doing their work, while others are sad while doing it, the reason is because the happy one is enjoying whatever it is they are doing while the sad one is not enjoying what they are doing because they are just doing to make money than being happy.
Early identification and proper guidance and counselling at an early stage would be extremely helpful.
There are moments that i need a car and someone needs just a bicycle in other to be happy. So you see how different we are as human.