I would say I'm one of the only people on these blockchain social media sites that pumps out my actual thoughts and experiences in the dating market and our social climate currently and where we are going.
If I told you to just date younger women that is too basic and won't give you actual insight. Also if I generically put everyone in particular categories that is going to misrepresent the situation.
For starters I'm not perfect but one of the things I said to one of my friend's recently is, "We need to look better!" That is a tall order as you age. Our skin starts to lose it's ability to retain moisture. Our hairlines can recede and a the bounce in our step can disappear. This is true for both men and women and most people in general just give up.
In their minds it would be WAY too much work to counter this worlds destruction on our physical presentation. Some people ask what you get for all this effort and work? RESPECT
It might sound arrogant but you will especially have a lot of guys want to pick your brain and align with you because deep down they know it will get them women. We do everything in this world for women. To obtain them and retain them.
You will see it in the female gaze because they will lock eyes with you far more often. These are choosing signals that I didn't pick up on as much when I was younger. They will also start asking qualifying questions and a lot of that questioning wouldn't occur if your look didn't attract them. Things are so looks centric for all species. The bucks have the huge racks, the lions have the big mane, the male birds have the more colorful feathers.
Simply put you have to be HOTTER than the females you are trying to attract and HOTTER than the competition.
You might just think you will get Bitty Rich and attract a young 21 year old who is a universal 9 out of 10 goddess who will pump out 10 super smart and healthy kids for you and for good measure you will have 5 other women like that pumping out just as many kids. "Oh Brian, that's ridiculous!!!" Is it?
Zeddy Will has 5 chicks pregnant and he is 22. Who the hell is Zeddy Will? Some hood dude knocking up hood rats or a modern day king???? 🤴
Most men might get 1 chick to let him have sex with her per year. This guy got at least 5 chicks to have sex with him and simultaneously be pregnant with his babies and pose in a picture with him. That's getting noticed because it is counter to the way our society has been set up.
Elon Musk also gets noticed for how many kids he has with various different women.
Supposedly he has 14 kids. It is even hard to find the actual answer online because various sites say different numbers.
It's an interesting topic and "A silverback gorilla will mate with all the adult females in his troop, which typically ranges from three to six. Gorillas are polygamous, meaning the dominant male mates with multiple females."
Imagine being as boss as a Silverback. That gets you three to six fertile females.
"Brian we aren't animals... blah blah blah." Yeah actually we are and all this game is in an attempt to obtain and retain women.
The issue is you don't look good enough and you aren't boss enough to retain the women you are talking to comparative to the competition in this modern environment and I'm not either.
What you find out is that almost no one is for the women who are 8s and 9s. Most of the time those women won't settle until they have fallen to a 7 or below and most of the time that already put them into unnecessary overtime and their fertility window closes.
This in some ways is obvious but in these modern countries women will play out hot girl summer until they are 57. 🌞😵
We are seeing the birthrates absolutely collapse in so many nations.
The video is pretty hilarious in some respects but also it is a reality that modern society doesn't want to be honest about.
Women absolutely get so pissed off about men dating younger women. Its just biology.
Are there exceptions to the rule? YES there can be 40 year old women who are hotter than a woman who is 20. Absolutely but more often than not if she is available and never had kids she is suffering from Lolo Jones syndrome. If you don't know the story of Lolo basically she was a summer and winter Olympian who couldn't find a man and ultimately froze her eggs at 40 in hopes to find a man eventually.
There are certainly situations all over the board. We see chicks becoming OnlyFans girls / sugar baby whores at an alarming rate. We see religious girls have a family and then file for divorce. We see hood rats getting knocked up by various dudes to collect child support from 3 or 4 different guys. We see DINKS (Dual Income No Kids).
The one constant though are the birthrates are colllapsing and we have tons of people staying single either out of choice or by no choice of their own. Their options don't meet their expectations oftentimes.
Some dudes are leaning into the lack of traction and dating grandmas. In other parts of the world this would sound insane but you have to realize that such a large percentage of guys are getting no play in a place like the United States.
It's one thing if a dude bangs a woman who is older than him but when it gets to a point where they are in full on relationships and living with women who aren't fertile you have to sit there and be honest with yourself. If given the option would he rather bang a 21 hot volleyball player from UCLA or a 65 grandmother of 7?
We would only see these scenarios in this very odd unnatural timeline. Even Chad Ocho Cinco admits he is a scrap sexual going after women who have at least 2 kids so he can eat all their food.
Imagine balling out in the NFL to raid a single mom's fridge of Capris Suns...... that is where we are at.
What Do I Focus On? What Should You Focus On?
You guys can do whatever but when it boils down to it unless you are in a really commited relationship and have kids if your testosterone is high enough your desire is going to be with a woman who is early to mid 20s. That is just biology. As long as she isn't a complete headache or causes too much friction that is going to be the route.
Guys saying they prefer older women are usually saying that because they have more leverage so those women make it easier on them.
Getting with women who are legitimately hot in their early to mid 20s is HARD and that goes for men of any age. Even if you are a 25 year old stud puppy it is still hard to get with a legit smoke show 22 year old. Those are just the facts.
If you are going after those women they have the most options out of anyone because they have their youth and their fertility.
When this is said a lot of people take it the wrong way and take it that you are saying a 55 year old woman working the Department of Motor Vehicles is worthless to society or something. You are still going to be cordial and nice but she just simply isn't a dating prospect for myself. People get all up in arms about that in the United States but that's obvious in most countries.
Men are a wasting aspect as well and usually as a man gets older they having to rest heavier on resources but in general women really like youth and projection. Minor League baseball players have a lot of projection and the true test is when they retire from playing. If they didn't make it to the MLB or another top league the money never really came in a big way.
Also one thing I noticed is a lot of these women that dated or talked to some guy that became famous later on a lot of their identity in the dating market becomes name dropping those guys to try to up there stock. It's extremely hard for women to establish their own status. Usually the path of least resistence is to align with a guy who has that upward projection.
That being said any older guy who these women think are hot still had the physique component and typically he became famous and has money associated with that. Younger women think Henry Cavil is hot but wouldn't pay him much attention if he was overweight working the night shift at Taco Bell.
Even a lot of good looking guys in their mid 20s are essentially starving out there. I have seen it over and over again. They aren't good at picking up choosing signals, can't escalate the situation, and there aren't enough pieces to the puzzle to actually have true success with the upper tier chicks. Next thing you know that chick sudden hooks up with a low level drug dealer.
The thing we can learn from hot felon Jeremy Meeks is you still have to have the physique and look once again to get the attention of attractive women.
In a lot of ways I look too clean cut. The equation is tough if you are trying to actually dial in and compete over the hottest women to be straight up honest. These countries like the United States and some of those European countries the women are going to essentially be the most expensive and demanding. A lot of women are ultimately end up single with no kids. No one really had that talk with them of where and when they should focus their efforts.
So you are up against that as well. They feel that they have unlimited time and unlimited options and always feel like there is something better out there and that they can do better.
The only ones that aren't delusional are really the women that are 9s and are like 22 years old because pretty much any dude would essentially expend all resources to keep her around if she acts half way pleasant. The issue is now women can command such a large orbit of various men for various tasks so oftentimes the hot ones hesitate to really be in a relationship because it would be harder to conceal the fact she has these other guys for various things.
It took time to realize that you are only playing a role and potentially multiple roles for women. As time has gone on it is tougher for one man to overcome all her hookups, sugar daddies, SIMPS who are fixing various things or painting a room in her house for free..... etc.
The power has tilted towards the women to where they are the polygamist in 2025. Most men can't even command one woman but a decent looking woman can command 5, 10, maybe even 20 men.
If she isn't giving you cheeks she isn't into you chief.
Conclusion
I can't tell you single guys exactly what to do besides don't give up. Try to improve your look. I myself have improvements I need to do.
You have to work mass volume these days unfortunately and it's very tough to retain the attention of a woman who has all these options.
Yeah sure you can all have a girlfriend but if are you going to be satisfied with an overweight grandmother of 11 just to try to get some fruit snacks and Capris Suns?
Not me. I'm just going to keep leveling up and unfortunately what we are finding out is that these women in the United States are the most entitled and expensive women ever in human history. Tough to deal with but honestly I wouldn't have ever been this strong if this environment wasn't this harsh.
The Unabomber wasn't a bad looking guy. He got zero pussy and absolutely lost it. Don't be like that guys. Level up! I'm going to the track and then I'm going to the gym. Have to stay locked in!