To start this case study off right I must say that I love women..... there is really no other way to put it. I'm sure that a lot of you guys out there enjoy the company of beautiful women as well. This case study is written from the perspective of a guy but women are welcome to read what I have to say as well and contribute to the discussion below.
Very rarely do women or men have a level of confidence about themselves to a point where they don't give a fuck no matter how hot the person of the opposite sex is that they desire. If they ever do obtain this confidence it is rare for either sex to possess it before about the age of 30.
It is natural to have insecurities no matter how hot a person is. Now guys I'm sure you have seen women that are so hot you almost lose your mind. They look so perfect you can't even imagine they have ever sharted their pants before in their entire life or ever had bad breath. They almost seem like a goddess working out in their yoga pants at LA Fitness. They look so good that you start to perv out while you are doing tricep extensions and start thinking about how you would be willing to let them rip one of your toe nails off with a pair of pliers just for a chance to lick the sweat off their body. Slurp, Slurp, SLURP, SLUUURRRPPP
Pick yourself up man!!!!
It isn't uncommon for the ladies to always question how hot they are. You look at her as a goddess but she doesn't like that one boob is three cubic nanometers bigger than the other one. She is self conscious because one of her molars is slightly out of place. To top it all off the particular day that you see her she feels bloated when she looks in the mirror because she ate a burrito three days ago.
She has her makeup on and her hair took two hours to do but she is never exactly sure if she looks bootylicious in her yoga pants.
You could find your way into her heart by making her laugh!!!!
Unfortunately you start thinking about how you aren't jacked enough. Also the shoes you have on are kind of shitty and beat up. You aren't really sure but you might have ear wax in your ears. To top that all off the workout shirt you have on makes you look like you need a sports bra. (Man boob alert!)
You tell yourself next time you see her after you get a haircut, new shoes, and you drop a little bit of weight you will talk to her.
She wonders in her mind if any of the hot guys find her attractive and if maybe she is too chubby to be wearing yoga pants anymore. She starts thinking about how she might have cottage cheese thighs. She goes into a state of miniature depression and eats an entire tub of ice cream while watching a Lifetime Original movie.
A woman will always be in the ultimate power position because they are the ultimate gate keepers. The fact is that most people in general are dealing with insecurities on a daily basis.
The more women you have hung out with the less it matters if it doesn't work out or if you ultimately get rejected. You aren't going to be 100%. I'm not trying to say that every woman isn't special and beautiful in her own ways. I'm just trying to say that if you act like a woman is a goddess and on such a higher level than you she will sense that and you lost any kind of power position that you might have had.
If you maintain your composure you might still get to lick the sweat off her body you sick fuck. You probably won't have to lose a toe nail to do it either.
Remember guys, she has ear wax too!
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