Hello ladies! ๐น
I am very excited and happy to participate in this week contest! Thank you for proposing this super interesting topics ๐
I have to say that it was difficult to decide between the questions and also what I want to share with this community. Since now I am in a time where I am creating something from scratch, I feel that answering to the question Whatโs something you could teach me about? I will share my method for creating anything you desire.
1. Make the decision to go for it
This might sounds obvious but the main reason why people don't live the life they dream about is because they don't make decision to go for it. In my past, this used to happen to me as well and I think is very common. Instead of making the decision they stay daydreaming or put excuses like:
When I have x amount of money in my bank, I will go for it
I will try when I finish paying the mortgage
Or my favourite "When I retire..."
There is commitment in any of these statements, and if you want to bring your dreams to reality, you have to be all in.
2. Become the version of yourself that is a match for the life you want
This was life changing for me. Sometimes we don't even start pursuing our dreams because we see them very far away. We feel like we have to claim a mountain and we feel exhausted before beginning.
As Albert Einstein once said:
Everything is energy and thatโs all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.
To match this frequency I have a daily practice where I ask myself this questions:
1. What are the thoughts & beliefs that are a match to my goal?
2. What are the feelings & frequency that are a match to this goal?
3. What are my actions when I am a match to my goal?
Sometimes I write down the answers, other times I just read it. But what is important is also feeling it in your body. THINK, FEEL AND DO like you have already succeeded. Even and specially if you still don't see the desired results outside.
3. Repetition
Whatever practice you are doing to achieve your goals, keep it constant. This has been for me the most important lesson and the most difficult to implement. In my past, I would watch a masterclass from a mentor, feel so inspired for the first days and then forgot about it and stopped doing my practices.
It's like if you come to Hive, create a couple of posts and expect to reach a lot of people just with that.
When you commit to a daily practice you are creating constant momentum and there is no doubt you will see results. If you have problems with being constant, my recommendation is that you start telling yourself that you keep consistency and everything you do every day. Teach your subconscious mind what you want to become.
4. Faith
One of the most challenging part of the process is to trust the process even when you don't see the results outside. This leads to quitting just before you start to get the results.
As an example this happened to me with my travel blog www.elviajeroexperto.com. I invested a lot of time at the beginning and didn't see any results. When I decided to stop investing my time on it, the monthly traffic reached more than 10k a month.
Now I am back to it, but I am aware that if I had kept working on it without stop, now it would be even more successful. And I have plenty of other similar examples in my life.
What is important to remember always is that the creation process is from inside to outside, not the other way around ๐
5. Relax and ENJOY
We are very bad educated. We have been taught that in order to succeed you have to work hard and struggle. When you are in this frequency no good ideas are gonna come to you. If you visualize these emotions in your body, it looks like rigid, like a brick where the energy can not flow.
On the contrary, when you relax and enjoy you feel more like a soft sponge or even water where energy and new ideas can easily flow to you. It's important to feel your body to understand in which frequency you are.
And also, life is not supposed to be too serious! Do you really think that we have come to this world to suffer? We are here to create, expand, enjoy and spread our love. That's the best we can do with our life โจ
I hope that this helps you to connect again with the energy of creation and that you have enjoyed the reading. ๐
I invite to participate in this contest ๐