In life, and as human, we always strive to accomplish our set goals and objectives. This involves alot of planning and decision making process....
Nobody sets out to fail in his/her mission. But there is an unwritten rule about life that we all must take note of and that is no matter how prepared or destined you are to achieve something, the clock might just work against you at one point in time...
So, as part of the life lesson in moving through life, sometimes, the NO you get at a particular time might be the best for you rathet than the wrong YES just to make you feel better or raise your expectations that won't come to pass...
But in simple way, a truthful rejection is better than a deceptive acceptance. Looking for job, admission, recommendations, etc always come with great expectations. We always expect good news to follow these expectations...
But what is the benefit of a deceptive YES when it brings more pain than happines. A Yes that cost more that a humbel rejection. A Yes that destroys rather than build. A Yes that take away what you have rather than give you what you don't...
This makes it more suitable sometimes to accept a right type of a NO! A No that comes with sincerity of heart, with more lessons than pain. A No that will re adjust your set goals and objectives. A No that re position you for a greater things ahead...
In all these, its evident that sometimes in life , a right NO which is positioned to re position us and gives us the room to re strategies is better than a wrong yes which is position to accomplish a short term goal in our lives...