The Gap between...
There's this line between reality and imaginary feelings (imagination) that's sets illusion constantly at mind. The gap that always put the mind and body to be wary.
Not all have learn to cross the line to possibilities of reality or close the gap just to get out of frustration. I had to learn to close my gaps on so much imagination that weren't of possibilities don't get me wrong on this context, I dream give and I am propelled by that dream to make it a reality but it is a possible achievement I Stan on.
Like I said not all individuals have learnt to close gaps and get out of frustration, so they can rewrite their own destiny in line with reality. I have come to understand that optimism opens the door to success, progress and like wise changing dreams to possibilities.
Whenever I am about taking an important action or step of my life, I go on meditation, intimacy on myself (mind), how well can I achieve these, how are my level of capacity and capabilities and finally, be true about the weakness aspect, because everyone has his or her weaknesses but it is not visible because it is always managed or subdued.
So when gap is closed, the line is crossed so is the sheet balanced now the reality sets in, there are often times fatigue turns into frustration, sadness and tears, I'm sure this has happened to some of you'll reading through? Some even give up as a result of no result on maybe the hardwork they're putting in to make sure that imagination comes to pass.
When that gap is present our expectations becomes so high than the reality of life and things around us, then exhaustion begin to sets in.
My main concern is about knowing the realistic possibilities and the unrealistic imagination on this context, there are imagination of sleek lifestyles on almost every young men minds but in reality if there's no smart and hard work in place and in hands those are just better left unrealistic imagination not a soul will make provision of that kind of lifestyle for a stranger. These is what I describe as that " gap in between" reality and. Illusions.
I have always worked with that principle of "a bird at hand is worth better than a thousand in the bush" in essence what I am and I have now I will manage and create opportunity with it let other opportunities come in. Using the reality to create my expectation and not just a random illusion of flamboyant lifestyle where as there's no real effort towards it.
The problem wasn't just dreaming and imaginary successful life but there seems to be forgetting the fact that for any reliable dream to come to pass the very present needs a serious shift both physical and mentally. If not our expectations will always fly higher than the reality we face and surely frustration sets in.
I have come to understand that certainty does not come before the big movement but rather during the movement, that's why when you've paid more attention to the reality of life, taking calculated risk is worth the journey to make. This life is full of risk to reward, make sure you manage the risk.
Be real, authentic enough because that is priceless and has more value than just mere and soft imagination or illusion for a better life.
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