How often you bond your life to your family?
Once a year?---- to our Overseas Filipino Workers i would say most of them do or probably even more years, have a chance to celebrate life with their love ones. Everyday for them most likely happiness when they're home. While during on work, everyday is a money making day. Not only one or two persons i knew but many of them really feel this way, they missed out every second event/s of their family, even as simple as when your son/daughter open his/her eyes for the every first time, this is one of the most memorable point in a parents life when you yourself witness this moment. But for them its a sacrifice for a long run & for YOUR future.
But How this sacrifice affects your kids?
YES! this is a big sacrifice for an OFW, they give all time to make money, to earn big, to provide family wants, But not the love they missed everyday that they are away.
I see most of material things are being provide but, it hurt so much to see that kids are not excited anymore when their parent is home, kids are more interested on gadgets, dresses, chocolates etc.
A bond between you and your mom and dad are even more a sacrifice. when kids doesn't understand on how parents go through that sacrifice. This leads to casualty.
Because of this many children today are lack of parents guidance, they make they're life busy on the things that somehow damage themselves, being into drug addiction, suffering liquor illness, and many more. Its sad to know all the negative ones are being experience just because of this mentality to PROVIDE but that replacement is a such big thing that affects our Future Filipino. On the other side there is also good thing in it, like they are already independent at a young age. Neither the less it really matter how kids grown without parents love and affections.
At the end of the day 'Nothing last permanent in your life' PROVIDE all for your family not only material thing but most especially the LOVE they are looking for, Your attention to them, Your guidance matter most to them and your presence is highly appreciated when your around because we don't know when we are not anymore feel each one physically and then we'll come to realize that its too late to give what they are longing for.
Thanks for reading guys.