<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2026 15:29:50 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/@commonguru/rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Where do I find some Consistency?]]></title><description><![CDATA[That is true, consistency is the key to success but asking for it gives the implication that we lack it somehow. That isn't true so we should just stop asking and I'll tell you why. The Problem with]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/where-do-i-find-some-consistency</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/where-do-i-find-some-consistency</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jan 2019 16:16:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/4bEjbgCbFMvA8T33kKpp3RsBvZue1Hns5Cwuz57pgmmNsNzfu465AFSQPXqMzHksiNXNgVHCzuhNmG9Uv66XPNspFCXscFZwaFJ94a34aGsV93daXvrNfaGHq7wyYF4XEw75WjVLshAhuiUHzz9Szs32CG2n3mzf4Z8RJ5LJSB7pedUAyU?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Jax - 1 Bogeyman - 0]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today my mother shared with me my birth story and it unfolded to me some possible explanations of why I had a bogeyman in my life and ultimately a terrible perception of men and dislike of doctors. Who]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/video/@commonguru/jax-1-bogeyman-0</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/video/@commonguru/jax-1-bogeyman-0</guid><category><![CDATA[video]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 10 Jul 2018 19:19:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45eKyNRXLgeLqY1sBjfmr3gZUBmrQq6LYtevi?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[The End of Scar Wars]]></title><description><![CDATA[As women, I believe as soon as we conceive a beacon/vibration is mysteriously and unconsciously sent out. As women, we can tell when a woman is pregnant. As women, we habitually hear countless birth stories]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/video/@commonguru/the-end-of-scar-wars-6c0bf568d24c2</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/video/@commonguru/the-end-of-scar-wars-6c0bf568d24c2</guid><category><![CDATA[video]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2018 12:32:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45e52kMsDp2mWYKZhFkAAtg7GM3uJup2VUpeJ?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Tranny Trouble - A Step in the Right Direction]]></title><description><![CDATA[Had a situation come up yesterday where a mechanic told me that my transmission was making a weird sound. The irony of the situation is that the car was dropped off for an Uber inspection and that was]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/video/@commonguru/tranny-trouble-a-step-in-the-right-direction</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/video/@commonguru/tranny-trouble-a-step-in-the-right-direction</guid><category><![CDATA[video]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2018 21:08:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45e5U19W5ZEqLae2L3h6893zkDsAYfb7xbyCA?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Re-purposing tools of destruction; 28 or so days later in the Bandaid Saga]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dermatophagia - is a compulsion disorder of gnawing, biting or eating one's own skin, most commonly at the fingers. (Wikipedia) This video marks my progress report regarding this compulsive behavior. Today]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/video/@commonguru/re-purposing-tools-of-destruction-28-or-so-days-later-in-the-bandaid-saga</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/video/@commonguru/re-purposing-tools-of-destruction-28-or-so-days-later-in-the-bandaid-saga</guid><category><![CDATA[video]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 14 Jun 2018 21:01:39 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45eLq3SZSFYtbx3obd7iDYWLKPNJXTJY85HLi?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Happiness is understanding that common sense isn’t common. - Meme moment]]></title><description><![CDATA[(Meme on my Facebook page) Often at the heart of most miserable experiences and a family lesson we’ve adopted; when you come across someone who behaves in a way that appears foreign to you remember that]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/happiness-is-understanding-that-common-sense-isn-t-common-meme-moment-0c8d514c83025</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/happiness-is-understanding-that-common-sense-isn-t-common-meme-moment-0c8d514c83025</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2018 16:19:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/o1AJ9qDyyJNSpZWhUgGYc3MngFqoAMyZDJra6W7PvvJvTz7hQ?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Where was I?  Days 8, 9 & 10 of the bandaid saga]]></title><description><![CDATA[Day 8 was full of surprises: Everyone of us encounters experiences where we feel we are being judged and hurt even from something as small as a comment on Facebook. I received one comment on this series]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/where-was-i-days-8-9-and-10-of-the-bandaid-saga</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/where-was-i-days-8-9-and-10-of-the-bandaid-saga</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 19 May 2018 01:02:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45ePaVDWrdJjDJDMGVLEKbdTbDkwmpkcQiBzW?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Self care; a step in the right direction.  Day 7 of the bandaid saga]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today we discuss changes things up a bit and trying something different, something positive to help.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/self-care-a-step-in-the-right-direction-day-7-of-the-bandaid-saga</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/self-care-a-step-in-the-right-direction-day-7-of-the-bandaid-saga</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2018 02:24:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45e3uCuhCcgGBfHKGXFwJ1J7AEfGApszSYGKp?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Being normally abnormal; Day 6 of the bandaid saga]]></title><description><![CDATA[Realizing the amount of time and energy invested on the do’s and don’t’s of my habit brings up the desire for freedom. Today we talk about the definition of normal and what it is we truly want.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/being-normally-abnormal-day-6-of-the-bandaid-saga</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/being-normally-abnormal-day-6-of-the-bandaid-saga</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2018 19:14:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45e4E6FVBWZUcbQwCXJNwxyvyzVEpregHGJj8?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Feeling Better, Feeling Good; Day 5 of the Bandaid saga]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most often we are seeking relief but make choices that initially feel better but slowly turn into feeling what we don’t want. Today we discuss the concept of feeling better and feeling good.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/feeling-better-feeling-good-day-5-of-the-bandaid-saga</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/feeling-better-feeling-good-day-5-of-the-bandaid-saga</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2018 02:04:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45dxfduQvkkG8LjfWq87ef5Tx1Esf2CSmYNge?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is this the last time? Day 4 of the bandaid saga]]></title><description><![CDATA[In every attempt to change, there is a sense of deja vu because of all the starts and stops along the way. It’s especially interesting when the end has almost been reached a few times so the journey is]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/is-this-the-last-time-day-4-of-the-bandaid-saga-613e7cb33120c</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/is-this-the-last-time-day-4-of-the-bandaid-saga-613e7cb33120c</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2018 00:19:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45eLLyTzd56cPweAgYSbyMkqfPcDRaoVYRB4a?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Solution is Right in Front of You; Day 3 of the Bandaid Saga]]></title><description><![CDATA[Day three brings awareness of how the solutions are right in front of us yet we cannot see them. I also discuss how this day has been lived through before on the path to overcoming this habit/addiction]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/the-solution-is-right-in-front-of-you-day-3-of-the-bandaid-saga</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/the-solution-is-right-in-front-of-you-day-3-of-the-bandaid-saga</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 12 May 2018 01:09:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45e4iWbBCqF9RTAJMkoTrzUpSFq5YRxjATpAa?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Where are you in the storyline?  Day 2 of the Bandaid Saga]]></title><description><![CDATA[Day one was a success despite it not being the last day in this series; I didn't quit cold turkey. During this video, I discuss some realizations that brought peace to the struggle with this addiction/habit.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/where-are-you-in-the-storyline-day-2-of-the-bandaid-saga</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/where-are-you-in-the-storyline-day-2-of-the-bandaid-saga</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2018 15:43:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45e5UZirUwzPpcWwKEdXq5czPEXkz2W4z72U6?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Can you really change your reality?  My answer is wrapped up in a bandaid.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Have a bad habit in your life that you just can't shake? I do. For as long as I can remember I have picked the skin around my fingernails, well ripped is probably a better word. I have ugly hands. Join]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/can-you-really-change-your-reality-my-answer-is-wrapped-up-in-a-bandaid</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/can-you-really-change-your-reality-my-answer-is-wrapped-up-in-a-bandaid</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2018 15:32:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45eAHWxB5nYX3HV73FqHurB4Dt2Vn3HJNNBtz?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Choose your outcome, choose your reality.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Walk with me and learn about how to create positive change by focusing on a different outcome.]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/choose-your-outcome-choose-your-reality-891252043cc2</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/choose-your-outcome-choose-your-reality-891252043cc2</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 05 May 2018 16:28:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/S5Eokt4BcQdk7EHeT1aYjzebg2hC7hkthT45eNjST8itz94qpm2TYiZpTZ636BrMqPefbjU?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Don't let "pooh" get in your way!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Take a look at the scrabble board picture above and what word jumped out at you? There have been countless facebook posts that ask you this question but I want to draw you to the two words "pooh"]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/don-t-let-pooh-get-in-your-way</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/don-t-let-pooh-get-in-your-way</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2018 17:38:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/PB8ro82ZpZP5xqHVTtgzxr9jRnPYTxeDK7ZMexdNiPcSuJTrBd6WWGGnouQdoP7YmdNhJFFAJF2EvV9X6RCHwBzhfgz7sUDTM4NF2EnJtQsdqzU6?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[There It Is - The Cat Litter]]></title><description><![CDATA[This is Buu. Well, the name on his adoption papers from the shelter is Carson but we affectionately call him Buu. He is a stocky boy and has a tummy that curves around and over or sometimes covers his]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/there-it-is-the-cat-litter</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/there-it-is-the-cat-litter</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2018 16:21:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/3W72119s5BjWPGGUiZ9pqnZoj8JHYxCCp9dtn2QVg8DJ66y2agcQ73oAQYL82FUq7Wiugu2bQDuyVHpoUncabnzpUFWr8Ewf4ZoxD7sMiP8XEcHmK9xtSS?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[What a difference a day can make!!]]></title><description><![CDATA[What a difference a day can make Behold the beauty. Above are pictures of the spring crocuses that decided to grace my garden in the most unexpected spot . Last year there were no flowers in that area]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/what-a-difference-a-day-can-make</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/what-a-difference-a-day-can-make</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2018 01:24:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/99pyU5Ga1kws91ecJjkANAzfstp5ietJ4ACvk9NVNxND1k2iwcGQizNU2sb9WKiNh1mfUvp9PZ46ComUDm5HKdNjh8tg4Bc2BupCzi2ZLbkVYLD2GLYR98n973uW8yWChc?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[He loves me; He loves me not.]]></title><description><![CDATA[A lesson in Love Boy did he show me. For years now I have been secretly thinking badly of my husband for he hasn’t measured up to my standards. Many times there were ripe opportunities for him to extend]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/he-loves-me-he-loves-me-not</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/he-loves-me-he-loves-me-not</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2018 19:04:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2gsjgna1uruvUuS7ndh9YqVwYGPLVszbFLwwpAYXZ1qtLgRoattuadUqrymJJGAmcdaY6AhMkmFwA6KBixBf6TpnonHAVkjn1MybjDC6AP3QFbGBY2?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Jacquie try the pickles!!!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Have you ever read the classic children’s novel by Dr. Seuss, “Green Eggs and Ham”? It’s a mesmerizing story about two friends, one unnamed and the other called Sam-I-Am. Throughout the book Sam-I-Am strongly]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/jacquie-try-the-pickles</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/writing/@commonguru/jacquie-try-the-pickles</guid><category><![CDATA[writing]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[commonguru]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2018 00:12:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/D5zH9SyxCKdBnJaFeHnL3svQi9ZN2XzXDbzH7WcA1p1giFTRew7VCCuHmxR92J9k5PGZsHoTFNfkKn1WPpusWzzPtZZuxrzv3b2ekaDCYpt9SCFv3vMLR8bi8x5qhdvHMN9UPG?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item></channel></rss>