The stories I get to hear these days always make me laugh. They are quite unbelievable stories that you would wonder how people find themselves in it or you will marvel why common sense wouldn’t apply in such an instance. As funny as those stories might sound, they are real life stories and people definitely go through them. Not everyone is capable of making decisions with a clear head where their emotions is concerned and this is why they would seek help from a neutral person who isn’t bound by emotions, to give them the common sense they couldn’t apply to such a case.
For those who have been following me quite well, you will know I always tell people; both guys and girls to always go into relationships with their heart as well as their head. No one should walk in blind or ignore the warning signs right early in the relationship. You need to address everything and seek for clarity because your heart is involved too. Don’t let your desire to have a man or have a lady override your common sense.
Think and ask questions because you are expected to do what’s best for you in making this vital decision. If you are not ready to go all the way, don’t jump in the ship and when you notice a guy or a lady is not ready to go all in and be committed, don’t waste your time else you will live to regret the time you spent waiting for someone who couldn’t decide or make up his or her mind. Why should someone else’s decision alter the course of your own life? Since that person is doing what’s best for him or her, please why can’t you do the same? Why should your own life be on hold over someone who is unstable as the ocean water? Wisdom is profitable.
A relationship isn’t a do or die affair. If you couldn’t date that person, it doesn’t mean others won’t come. The person who came saw something in you, so why would you think he or she is the only one who can see that? There is more to you than just the one thing someone saw.
If they treat you like a joke, leave them like it is funny.
…to be continued…
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn’t bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love’s chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor’s order.