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The funniest part of this lady’s story is the fact that, she is sad this guy is going after another lady already despite all she has done for him. Is she not supposed to be grateful she is getting rid of this guy finally and also congratulate the new girl on the resumption of a one way traffic responsibility on her new found boyfriend? A good guy wouldn’t think it is okay for a lady to assume his responsibilities and even feed on it. This guy is a predator and she should have gotten rid of him already.
Most of the times, when we are hanging on to the wrong person too much, life might look on us and make this person hurt us so much that we won’t have a choice than to let go. Your ex might come around to your life to see if you were still stupid hahahaha. I think she should be happy this guy is finally leaving.
I know why she is hurt; the financial sacrifice, emotional sacrifice, even body sacrifice. This guy took advantage of this lady on all fronts. If she is not careful and she begs this guy to stay, the point is, at one point or the other; he would still leave for someone that pays higher. Why not save yourself of future heart ache and wait. It is not easy, yes, but it is a common sense action to do.
A guy like this would always go for the highest bidder. Maybe he has gotten a loan from the new girl and when that one fails later on, he would go after another lady. Guys like this must never know how much you have in your account because he would fit a business proposal to just how much you have in your account and hook you with words and make you feel guilty if you don’t help him. A word is enough for the wise. Be wise enough to rid yourself of this guy and with excitement, wish him all the best with the new girl.
Forget the sex and whatever he might be doing with the lady. I know how it must hurt to picture in your head all the things he did with you and is now being done to another lady, especially when the sex was good. You haven’t lost, you have gained a valuable experience on self-love; a lesson this new found lady would soon discover too.
THE END
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn’t bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love’s chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor’s order.