In the shelter teens spend a lot of time on the internet. Where do they navigate? Facebook, Youtube, Whatsaap ... This is the standard answer they tell us.
This is how they communicate with school friends, the course, meet people ... But do you really know someone like that, without eye on the eye?
I do not believe in these superficial relationships.
Today a 15 year old teenager was upset because no boy likes her because she wanted to be different, she wanted to be more beautiful .... And that boys only think and sex and only say "send me a nude".
I asked what she did yesterday (Sunday). She told me she did not leave and stayed all day in the room on her cell phone. With the saying of "nude," associated with staying in the room all day, with a scorching sun ... I was very suspicious.
I asked, were you alone in the room?
She said no, that she was with another teenager, one in the upper bed and the other in the lower bed.
I went more directly and asked "did someone ask you to send nude"?
She replied that yes, a friend of the teenager who was in the bed below, that she had just met by Facebbok, the friend of the friend, who appears in the suggestions of friendship.
She showed me the conversation, i really understood the reason for her annoyance.
"Hi, send me a nude"
It is the peak of the lack of subject matter, it is the peak of testosterone, it is the peak of the lack of a beating of the father or the mother, to learn to be at least educated. I wanted to go to this guy's house and break his cell phone in his head, but nobody knows who he is.
I explained that the internet is a land with few laws, that you can do everything, you have to be very careful who you talk to, anyone. Better select friendships, both on Facebook and in real life, idiots will always exist.
By the 24th they will reflect on what happened.
The use of the cell phone will be rethought in the Shelter.