Hello steemians, welcome to my blog, its good to have you here, well today you won't be reading a motivational post, as it has always been my forte for almost a month now, and its not gonna be a poem either...... Though I feel I should write a poem soon, less I would lose my skills, or is it touch they call it.....lol.........Yeah it's been that long, so soon probably my next post might be a poem, but that's not what this post is about..... Today's post is just something about relationships. It's a secret and if men know this secret about women, they would never toil with any woman that truly falls in love with them. Women are not wired to fall first for a man. Rather, they are wired to play along with the best suited suitor.
But, things are fast changing. Women have started liberating themselves from their traditional design, or default setting as you may put. Nowadays, there are two reasons why a woman will play along with her "toaster" even unto marriage, but yet, she would not still be deeply in love with him.
Firstly, Because she wants to show gratitude to this man that have given her support and comfort.
Secondly, Because she needs to settle down and this man is manageably available to settle down with.
It is very hard for a woman to fall deeply in love with a man, but when they fall for a particular nigga and it happens not to result unto marriage, She will resort to PLAYING ALONG in her quest to find a life partner.
The liberated and enlightened Woman's emotion is selfish, it only cares about how it feels about a guy - About whom she loves. ONLY THAT WILL MAKE HER LOVE DEEP.
This is why when a woman plays along and gets married to a very caring and financially supportive man, she may still cheat on him, cos she is not really in love. A woman who is deeply in love with her man would rather die than to cheat on him. As long as she is not revenging a cheating partner. A woman's love, though rare can be fierce and deadly. While she is loving deeply, and she gets cheated on to her knowledge, Life would melt into meaninglessness to her. The Best Thing That Can Happen To A Man Is To Marry A Woman That Is Deeply In Love With Him. Unfortunately for men, these kind of ladies in their lives are now their exes. They never appreciated these ladies in the past when she was going crazy over them. Most guys get obsessed with the idea of getting their dream girl, but most times a dream girl isn't the wifey type. To the ladies that are the wifey type, but not the dreamy type, you were not the most handsome guy around. You were not so rich, Infact, you were managing. Yet, this babe was dying on top your matter, but you felt that she was caging you. No breathing space. You pushed her away and she cried herself a river in her dark room, and wondered if she would love a guy like this again. Oh life!
Now, you wanna settle down, you're looking for a babe wey go die on top ya matter like she did, for where? Na only hustlers you dey now see. 😂 You come try go back to the one wey you don push comot, you start toh dey search for her, dem come tell you say she don dey married with 3 kids. She is not deeply in love with her hubby. But she had to PLAY ALONG in order to settle down.
YOU MISSED THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. You played yourself. True true, when it comes to women, men no sabi better thing.
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