The secret of the first appointments is in your look
Recent psychological studies demonstrated and verified that it is not clothing that gives us away in a first appointment, but our facial expression or body language. Ok, of course in a first meeting it helps a lot to be dressed and perfumed according to the occasion, but what is most decisive is the expression we put on seeing the other person.
The smile in a first encounter must be authentic, something that can cost us a bit if we are nervous, not because we are not happy to be on a first date, but the fear of being negatively evaluated makes us put a face on the face that can be recognized by our appointment as something false.
How can we have an authentic smile? First breathe, before entering the premises take a few seconds to put your feet on the ground and remember that you are a valuable person.