Hey, friends!
A story of a loving marriage entails the quality of marriage that is encapsulated in commitment, sacrifice, love, and trust as a result of being purpose-driven towards the future.
If you look at some marriages today are not built for the purpose. A man marries a woman because he needs children to be born for him at times, ignoring care, love, and other things that will make the marriage sweet or encouraging. Many women are going through emotional suffering at the hands of their husbands, instead of enjoying peace and love in marriage, they are suffering to the point that some women curse their husbands for maltreating them.
Marriage is supposed to change the lives of two individuals becoming like Christ, being transformed by renewing their minds, character, and exhibiting the character of God, like unconditional love, forgiveness, kindness, patience, faithfulness, and other virtues or fruits inside the marriage. God brings two imperfect people together to make them become like Christ, who is our perfect being, to make husband and wife learn of His character as they journey through life.
Aside from giving birth to children, marriage is work that will help husband and wife to develop a character pleasing to God and to men who can learn from them. And transferring this character to their children to emulate and live by well.
A loving marriage is placing value and understanding on each other.
God didn't establish marriage for violence, war, fighting, and abuse. God created marriage for His character to be revealed in the lives of couples.
Therefore, as a young man growing up, you need to understand what marriage is all about before you marry. Study women. Have your visions written down, your goals, and many things. Like I said in my earlier post, be whole as a man.
Married with love, forgiveness, kindness,, and more. Be flexible or teachable enough to change and adjust to fit well with your partner.
Note: marriage is of God's standard, not of the world's standard.
Thank you for reading.