Being the father of a girl, I have experienced how difficult it is to bring a child into the universe. I only had empathy for my wife, but the real pain I had suffered! It started from the first day when we learned that we were going to be parents, that's when his painful journey began.

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Those who are already parents, aware of the difficulties during the pregnancy period. Here I will mention some of those. But the real difficulties only a mother knows.

Morning sickness
Vomiting
Changes in hair and skin
Problems in the bladder and bowel
Facing lassitude
Indigestion
Headache
Leg cramps
Swelling of the ankles and feet

Going through all the painful journey of 10 months when the most awaited date arrives, that is another terrible day for a mother! I had the opportunity to stay with my wife for a few moments during the delivery of my first daughter. With horrendous pain, his face went pale. As the doctors tried to obtain normal delivery, he had to tolerate the pain for a few hours. Since I was not authorized to stay there, I had to leave before the birth of my daughter. But from outside I could feel my wife's pain. This may be our story, but I think it's common for all women.

What's next?

Every mother begins another punishment trip after giving birth to a child. The first 6 months of life, any mother can sleep properly (breastfeed, take care of cloths to protect from the cold, control the ambient temperature, etc.). Yes, I say it from my practical experience.

From time to time I would get to know my grandmother's childhood stories. I used to say that my mother did not sleep all night when I got sick. My mother suffers from permanent headache due to insomnia night after night. Again, this is not just my mother's story! This is the story of all mothers.

When children grow up, many of us believe that the responsibility of the mother has been reduced. But in practice it is the reverse. Not only does a mother have to manage the children but also the other members of the family.

I am a father and reached the age of 26 years. Still, with any of my difficulties, my mother gets anxious. She always tries to protect me like a chicken protects her chicks from hawks.

After doing all the hard work and sacrificing happiness, do mothers receive the appropriate reward (although mothers never want a reward) from their children? In many cases, the answer is 'YES' and in some cases the answer is 'NO'.

I had the opportunity to visit some nursing homes. You will not be able to contain your tears after seeing the pain of the parents. This pain is not for food or belongings; the pain is for the LOVE of your loved ones.

Finally, when the answer is 'NO' for the mother, let's do 'YES'. Do not forget, you will grow old one day and the same treatment is waiting for you. Always remember, time never forgets to take revenge.

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