Not caring what people think is the hokey pokey to getting through each and every day—it’s what it’s all about.
(GET IT?)
I don’t know if not caring what people think comes before or after liking yourself, but I think learning to do either will help with the other.
I don’t feel like the most qualified person to talk about this, but I don’t know what it would take to be the most qualified. Self-esteem is the kind of thing that sucks basically for every girl, no matter what your circumstances, probably because you are constantly told you can and should be better. We get a depressing number of You Asked It questions about this, but I have too much to say to condense it to a couple paragraphs for a Just Wondering post. “Be yourself!”-type stuff isn’t effective without the exhausting breakdown we’re about to get into.
I’ve split this up into these three sections: *wearing what you want
*your physical self
*your internal self.
Good night all!