<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link><image><url>http://direct.ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>http://direct.ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2026 07:33:43 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="http://direct.ecency.com/@eatpraysex/rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[When to Disclose an Open Relationship]]></title><description><![CDATA[One evening I was hanging out with my FWB (I'll call him Sean), several of his friends, and my husband Ben. 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This is a typical conversation between me and my husband. (The names are fictitious.) : Me: Hey Ben, do you have any]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/relationships/@eatpraysex/the-unique-love-of-an-open-relationship</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/relationships/@eatpraysex/the-unique-love-of-an-open-relationship</guid><category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[eatpraysex]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Jul 2017 16:51:57 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2gsjgna1uruvUuS7ndh9YqVwYGPLVszbFLwwpAYXYr2kgBBJvv4jsZRyP6VR7fQAh3iRBWYuXtLM4cX85xkoMKDyg4rob6gEtJMbPwBrgh7pQbXKz6?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Fear of Temptation]]></title><description><![CDATA[I had a couple of topics in mind for today, but then I came across a New York Times article about Americans and their apprehension at being alone with members of the opposite sex: and I decided my original]]></description><link>http://direct.ecency.com/sex/@eatpraysex/the-fear-of-temptation</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://direct.ecency.com/sex/@eatpraysex/the-fear-of-temptation</guid><category><![CDATA[sex]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[eatpraysex]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 02 Jul 2017 18:19:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.ecency.com/p/2gsjgna1uruvUuS7ndh9YqVwYGPLVszbFLwwpAYXYCZo595Gi3JQwgir5p3hUY2EabZkSkX1tj5cVEZaHWxFriTeUd8ZRyijo9exeN9HZbgmUdSYxE?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Casual Sex & Power Dynamics]]></title><description><![CDATA[DISCLAIMER 1: This is not a man-bashing posting. 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