The judgement here is not necessarily directed at the poster, but rather at said behaviors and how they are glorified within Western society.
People who act like described in the post with their girlfriends or boyfriends have no sense of self-worth and zero respect towards anyone, let alone towards themselves. However this is in no way an excuse to behave like this, so they deserve zero sympathy. This perfectly touches upon what I wrote about two nights ago, as no honorable person in their right mind would ever even consider for a single second betraying a person like this; the very person with whom it is implied you want to spend a large chunk of your life on this planet, if not the entirety of it. But of course, that is not the case in these kinds of relationships, when in said circumstances, people apply zero principle (let alone have any) and intentionally destroy the relationships, damaging both parties so much and so drastically, leaving very little chance that they'll ever have a functioning relationship ever in their lifetime. No, the reason why you would possibly act like this is because you want to put in the least effort for the most fun, i.e. sex, so it is not even a virtue-based relationship, founded on moral principles and mutual empathy, but rather a dirty little arrangement where the standards are so low that you get to behave like this and STILL ejaculate at the end of the day, because that's all these people have going for them: Temporary relief from the misery of their lives with sex as the suppressant. It's repulsive and it is sad.
In my opinion, the title should absolutely not say what "boyfriendS tell...", implying that it's some accepted universal, and even normalizing it. Rather, this post title and its list refers to the self-medicating of people of a dying society using described behaviors, co-dependently ruining their lives using means of inter-personal obliteration in the form of sexual partnership and cum along with habitual, emotional terror. A so called "relationship", absent rigorous self-work and consistent moral principle, is but a dirty little arrangement people falsely call "a relationship" in which standards are completely rejected, often even looked upon as ridiculous or crazy. Said behaviors are even praised as "normal", and sex is an implicit, creepy certainty which needs no longer be earned like in the recent past of some decades ago, for as of today, you can fuck a 100 people and still not ponder over what the fuck is wrong with you.
If even one of these behaviors is practiced in your relationship, get out and work on yourself for a few years before even thinking about approaching the opposite gender again, because all you will be entering into are the same little prostitution-like arrangements, like described above, where all you will ever do is behaving like a cunt, fuck until you bleed, pathetically fight a little bit more, break up, and then continue the exact same cycle again, but with another, morally deprived zombie-like non-individual, where the only difference is they go by a different name, in-delusion pretending there is change.
One wouldn't normalize or joke about the habits of those addicted to heroin, so don't do it in regards to addicts of relationship dysfunction and personal annihilation.
I initially wrote this entire post as a comment. Then I received a reply that I'd like to respond to, which was this one:
Well, these are chosen actions perpetrated from a conscious decision by the individual, i.e. they don't just "occur", but are acted-out behaviors. Huge difference. And it is a huge deal, because the art of constructing and maintaining stable interpersonal relationships with a life-partner is what has held civilization together throughout most of human history. A big sign that a society is on the brink of death is the glamorization of the dysfunctional family, or the lack of one. First, it is the normalization, then appraisal, and then you're a bigot if you so much as dare speak of moral principles ever again, because things are "supposed" to be bad at this point in time in the world, they tell you.
I just don't think there's anything funny anywhere in your article. It's not a joke, and it's just tragic hearing about people who actually "live" their lives in such a manner. I had to say something.
Last thing I want to say before I retire back into my deep hibernation den of emotional rejuvenation:
:)
/Analytical Eddie
