So sad to hear of people being separated from love. Welcome to Steemit. Check out this users guide I put together, I remember how it seemed like so much when I first joined so I made this guide. https://steemit.com/introduceyourself/@embomb701/steemit-beginers-guide-revision-2. I upped your post! If it helps you out, please up and Re-Steem so other members of the community can benefit.