THIRD STAGE OF LUST (THE PLANNING STAGE)
Lust at this stage is given by the acronym below.
L -LOVE
U -UNDER
S -SECRET
T -TERMS
At this stage, a Youth begins to make a plan how to actualize what he/she has been longing to touch, taste or test in his/her heart.
Many youth call it ‘love’ but I call it ‘Love Under Secret Terms’ (lust). At this stage, a male and a female youth that are lusting after each other may begin to behave funny and secretively. They may begin to do things in secret- secret phone calls, secret text messages, secret chats, secret visits when parents are not at home, secret invitations and so on. Even toasting belongs here. It is during this secret stage that many youths roll out plans that take them to the real action (fornication).
Lies are also not too far from Youths engaging in lust at this stage because they need a lot of lies to succeed in, and to cover their secret loves and plans.
Proverb 7:19 tells of a woman, whose husband had travelled, and was planning a ‘secret love’ with a young man she had been lusting after.
17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.
18 Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.
19 For the good man is not at home, he is gone a long journey:
This planning secret love is also sinful because, if you are not checked, it is what you plan that you will carry out as mentioned in Micah 2:1.
Micah 2:1 Woe to them that devise (plan) iniquity, and work evil upon their beds! when the morning is light, they practise it, because it is in the power of their hand.
Micah 2:1 explains the reason many young girls were raped after honouring secret invitations from their ‘so-called-boyfriends’. Their boyfriends planned the rape and carried it out when they see their girlfriends.
The acted drama video below shows a young man that is always engaging 'Love Under Secret Terms' (LUST) with young girls.
Any youth who is bent of having a 'secret love' with you will eventually end up in fornication, molestation or rape with you if not checked.
PRAYERS
Lord, Jesus Christ, deliver my feet from running to do evil.
Cast out the lust out of my eyes by the finger of God.
Do not allow me to fall to lust like Adam and Eve
Destroy every trap of seduction on my way by the fire of God.
Give me the power to flee fornication.
JESUScoming
Source from http://www.nairaland.com/3538646/overcoming-youthful-sexual-lusts/4#52610582