Everything in our life is based on choices, these can originate for many reasons, they can be for a feeling or some desire, for comfort, economy, among others. The fact is that they become that important "something" of our lives, which makes us go backwards or forward; whether we are mistaken or not (due to that choice) moves us, sometimes towards a wrong path or direction or very difficult to travel. We get to that point where we wonder how it ends up here? What happened to me? How did I give up what I loved so much? Who would have thought I'd end up working on this? among other questions.

The decisions we have made in our lives have made us what we are now and it is those decisions that will lead us to what we will be tomorrow. That's why it's important to make the right decision. Each one decides what to do with his life, whether to transform it or destroy it day by day, and I want to talk about the latter. Everyone chooses how to end his or her life, whether it's by following a toxic relationship, living in constant self-destruction through our thoughts or a pathetic diet, just to adapt to a society where appearance is paramount. And so it is, even worse... it seems that self-respect is becoming the last thing on our priority list. Because yes, it is a priority and should be among the top two things on our list, love us. This would avoid wasting time looking for that person who loves us or intends to do so.

The devaluation is such that we live comparing ourselves to other people, we are aware of what it does, how it dresses, how successful it is, what it lacks, how wrong it is to criticize it... it is so pathetic but not as much as living without knowing what we really want in this life, what decision is really the right one; fearful by nature and insecure by society.

Everyone chooses. To get out of the vicious circle, out of the love triangle, to remove and ignore any thought and idea sold by a sexist and slave society... each one is free to choose. There is free will.

In that UNIVERSE of decisions, I want you to think about the following:

1. What is it that makes you so happy?
2. Are you proud that the people around you are part of your everyday life?
3. Are you surrounded by people who enrich your experiences? contribute to your life? Do they make you feel comfortable? Do they change the way you see things?
4. Do you value your life? Do you love your body? You take care of him? are in harmony with you?