Opposites do not attract. You are attracted to those who think alike. If you and someone have the same goals then you are more likely to automatically like that person. That being said. It is also a double-edged sword. If you surround yourself with those who do not believe in being the best version of themselves then you will never be the best version of yourself. You can disagree all you want. But the reality is you will never succeed if those around you are lazy, unambitious, and negative people. I grew up with people who will always put me down. We would mock each other. Always try to put each other down because we liked teasing each other. I grew up shy. When I met these friends they became part of my personality. I became someone who was the opposite of what I wanted to be. After finding real friends. People that want me to succeed I have attain some of their habits. I am writing this after a full day of work and 2 hrs at they gym. We are sitting right across each other writing business plans. We skipped out on going out to a bar with people to work on ourselves. That is what the right people can do to you. Find those who have the same goals as you and you will skyrocket like never before. After all a pack of wolfs can't hunt separate.