1.Use pauses instead of fillers:
Pauses, when used correctly, can be powerful ! they are used to emphasize the important message of the speech. In the other hand Filler words like Ummm, ahh .. can destroy your entire speech, making you less appealing and less confident therefore you lose interest very quickly. Also, make sure to not overdo pauses to avoid losing track of your listener.
2.Be efficient with your speaking:
The most effective way to deliver a speech is generally the simplest way.According to salesmen, this is called ' Kiss Vs Kill '. Kiss meaning keeping it short and direct, Kill meaning keeping it long and lengthy.Kings used to use frequently this procedure because direct simple have so much more effective to deliver the wanted message.Also, simple and direct words make you feel confident and honest.
3.Conversation Threading:
The most effective skill to keep the conversation going. It means you locate different subject from the previous phrase and you can branch from it. For example '' you talk to women and she said: I'm a doctor, the salary is good but work's Hours are long !. You can choose to talk about anything related to Health, your job, your personal salary, your work schedule, your dreams, and desire ...etc. Now you see from one subject you can talk about multiple ones and this skill will improve with practice.
4.Making statement:
Many of us when we get to know someone, we bombard them with question after question.This is called an interview mode and it can be very uncomfortable, so what's the solution? When you are with your best friend, you rarely ask a question .All of your speech is made of statements after the statement .Making a statement share a little about yourself and open a variety of ways to respond, making the conversation more efficient and less awkward. For example, Instead of asking about someone's Job, Guess His/Her job. you will get better with practice, just keep that tip in mind.
5.Other skills ( storytelling, Humour, Emotional talk ...):
Everyone is gifted at something.When making a conversation, Mixing your skills will get you greats results because it gives the conversation an unpredictable Goal.I always recommend of keeping in mind two good stories and 2 good jokes about yourself, as making fun of yourself makes you more likable.Use these skills carefully and avoid overdoing it.If you are not funny, just make sure to stick to the basics, the Four tips alone will give you great results.
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