.
I know it's usually a hard time during this period
but you have to take things easy!
1.ENDING YOUR LIFE BECAUSE THEY LEFT. You
were fine before you were in the relationship and
you’ll be fine now that they are gone. Don't ever
put your life on hold simply because someone
left
your life.
.
2.ENDLESS TEARS: Don’t wake up every day
thinking of what should’ve been, or what
could’ve
been. Stop wasting your time crying in one
corner
or spending hours day-dreaming of all the
possibilities. Dry your tears. It's well.
.
3.DON'T CONTACT YOUR EX FOR ANY REASON:
When that person becomes your ex, it's best you
detach from them. Do not be in a hurry to
contact
then for any reason. Wait until it’s appropriate to
do so. Let an Ex stay an Ex.
.
4.DON'T BEG FOR RECONCILLIATION: Don’t beg
for him/her to return. Why do you want to be in a
relationship with someone you had to beg to be
with you? Besides, if your ex rejects you a
second
time, it won’t just hurt; the rejection will sting
with extra humiliation and regret.
.
5.QUIT TALKING ABOUT YOUR EX. Quit talking
about whether he or she is better without you or
how they are getting on with their life while
without you. If you do, it will get annoying
and friends will lose interest in talking to you.
.
6.DO NOT FACEBOOK STALK THEM: Social
media
can be dangerous when dealing with a break up.
Don’t think his Facebook page has any good
news
for you. Here are 2 Online Rules To Observe
During
A Break Up.
1.Don’t post anything about the breakup drama
online, no matter how vague, and resist the urge
to
stalk your ex.
- Unfriending, or hiding statuses can help you
avoid the constant temptation to check in and
see
how they are doing.
.
7.DON'T SEEK REVENGE. The thrill of revenge
only
feeds bitterness and hatred. You may have been
deeply wronged, but “getting even” won’t heal
any wounds. Forgive and move on
I hope this helps! Love is a beautiful thing!