International Women's Day was 8th March. And when the Women's Day comes to mind, why do I get so sad. An unknown depression comes in the form of mind, feeling helpless. Because of Women's Day, Ministry of Women and Children Affairs, Separate Quota for Women. When these words come to mind, it seems to be a deprived, oppressed, self-reliant class organism, It looks like a human but not a whole human. An animal tied in a chain, a woman who is on the other side of the chain and a class woman, who herself is known to be slavery. In the present context, everyone has some requirements.
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The society creates a chain for us and with the change of society, the shape of the chain also changes. Our society has created a frame of an ideal woman. If she walks outside the frame, she no longer receives a good girl certificate. And if you get it, It has taken away. She is insulted. Sometimes her body is bloody. Sometimes she is killed a bit every day on the words of her self-esteem and self-confidence. Before in our eyes, we are unknowingly put on our feet, an invisible chain. The society wants us to understand that it is like our anchoring anchors. Under the financial category, the chain is made of gold, silver, copper or iron. And this is the chain that does not only do men bind the woman's feet. Afraid of men or Sometimes a woman satisfy to men this chain becomes part of the society. One of the biggest crimes seems to not be beautiful for a girl. What is the nature of beauty, that society will fix us? Without physical beauty, all is futile, no matter how educated and proficient she is.
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And if there is a hint of cigarette smoking or a glass of wine, then the girl is depraved. The number of friends more than the boyfriend of a girl, whoever rides a rickshaw with her boyfriend or goes to watch movies, she is also characterless. Many people may feel like listening to the words — educated people do not think so in this way.
Sadly, all these things are from the real experience of my life. All the people are educated in modern education in the city and many of them are women. This article is not intended for men, for women's sake. We can not change man's mentality. And it is foolish to think of men as rivals or enemies. We have to change ourselves.
We have to think — Do we want to stay the same way that society likes to organize the frame inside us? Do we want to see ourselves as someone else's eyes? Or you want to discover yourself in your mirror? Do we want to play artificial happiness after a chain of gold and silver ankles? Or do you want to break the chain? Do we want to paint the world in our own colors, Or do we want to taste the success of entering colorful bottles of colorless water? Do we want to learn to protect ourselves or to protect ourselves, like the heroine of the movie, save the living screaming for security in men? Want to fix your own destination, or want to live with the keys of the doll?
The chain that our society has laid on our feet, it is not so easy to break the chain with two hands. But if two or four or more pairs of hands are mixed together with your own hands, then this hard chain is not difficult to break. Envy, negligence, and neglect of each other will only harm us. If we are friends, taking each other's hands in sympathy, our sad sky will shine in the light. We can break each other's chain.
If women do not want to beat the necklace in the name of other women to help the male society, then it will help to break your chain.
If a man is a child, only if a mother teaches him that woman is not less than intellectually, skillful, if it is meant to cook, to build a house, raising a child is not only a woman's work, but a positive attitude towards women will develop with our next generation.
The kind of physical pain that a girl has to go through, the idea that her mother should give to her son. So that he does not take the lust for the woman, but rather grew up with affection and respect.
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Being beautiful is not important, the important is physical, emotional and financially strong and self-reliant. Using our own strength, we have to break the chain. We will be each other's shield and sword.