There is more to being hot than just having good looks; having the right personality is important too. This article will give you some tips and points on how to look your best, regardless of your figure, hair texture, or complexion. It will also give you some advice on how to get an attractive personality so that you can feel your best as well.
Know that having a good, positive personality is an important part of being hot and attractive. Sometimes, a negative personality can make the most attractive woman unattractive. Also, know that looking "hot" does not mean that you have to change your personality. Be yourself, but also try to be confident and positive.
Respect and value yourself. Some people might assume that in order to be "hot" a woman must also be slutty and dependent on others. This couldn't be further from the truth; a woman can still "be hot" and respect herself as a person. You can do this by dressing for yourself, and not for the pleasure or acceptance of others. If you think that strong eyebrows or wild hair is hot, then go for it! If you think that sleek hair and thin, arched eyebrows are the way to go, then do that instead.
Have a genuine smile. The best accessory a woman can wear is a smile. It shows that she is confident and happy with herself. Even a slight smile is better than a frown. Not only will it make you appear happier and more approachable, but it might also lift your mood a little when you are feeling down.
Be friendly towards others. It is perfectly find to have close friends, but try not to confine yourself to a clique and exclude other people. You might come off as condescending and snobby, which aren't always considered to be attractive traits. Even if you have a perfect face and figure, you might not make many friends or catch someone's interest if you are mean.
Maintain a strong personality, but remain respectful. You don't want to come off as condescending or as a bully. If someone tries to push you to do something that you don't want to do (or don't feel comfortable doing), be firm and say "no." Do not let others bully you, but at the same time, do not bully other people back.
- If you find yourself in a hostile situation, end the conversation, and leave. This will paint you as a strong, confident woman, and people may look up to you and admire you. Do not talk back to the attacker, and do not try to bully him or her back. This will only make things worse for you.
Walk with confidence. Keep your back straight and your shoulders slightly tilted back. Hold your head high, but not so high that you are looking down at others. A good posture is both comfortable and confident. If your posture feels a little stiff, you might be over-doing it; loosen up a little, but don't slouch.
- Slouching and crossing your arms might make you appear unapproachable. Some people might not find this to be very attractive in terms of personality.
Try to look more approachable by having a more open posture. This means keeping your hands loose and your arms down at your side. Try not to slouch or cross your arms over your chest. Even if you aren't looking to make new friends, an open posture will make you appear more friendly. This is considered to be a positive trait, which can help you appear more attractive to others.
Know that being smart can be attractive too, but try not to brag about it either.There is nothing wrong with ending your education after high school, just as there is nothing wrong with going out and getting a degree. Don't be afraid to show your wit and intelligence, but take care not to overdo it; if you brag about your knowledge, or constantly try to correct others, you might come off as condescending and arrogance. Intelligence and wit can be attractive, but arrogance and snobbery never are.