Sometimes problems are not big, we make them by thinking more negative about it and not looking for solution.
Life is a mixture of problems and pleasure - 80% joy and 20% misery!
But you hold on to the 20% and make it 200%!
The mind messes up the problems, blows it out of proportion and makes one miserable.
The circumstances ones create, the love and respect ones desire, the pain and gain of social strata one demands.
Its all about temperament, satisfaction, learning and earning to pursue happiness/joy.