If you're human you've been a nutbag at some point; there's no point denying it and if you do the only person believing your lies would be yourself. Humans are fallible, flawed and imperfect and so humans do dumb things, behave badly, selfishly, say dumb shit and...well, I guess they're nutbags. Fortunately, we're not nutbags all the time...ok, some probably are, but most of us are not.
What makes a nutbag is something each of us decides for ourselves and often it's through our perception of others and opinions, rather than based on cold hard facts. That's ok too, we're all free to think however we please.
I've been a nutbag, still am, and will be in the future as well. I'll own it because that's who I am as a person - someone who takes ownership.
I've done and said many dumb things in my time and looking back often wonder how I've lived to tell the stories, or how I've managed to live with the embarrassment or shame I've caused myself but it's part of life I guess and others have been through the same things.
Below are a few posts I've done in the past and a read of each will confirm my nutbag status for sure:
Those events are all from my youth and while it would be nice to say my nutbaggery was confined to those early years I cannot truthfully say it, much nutbaggery has ensued through my adulthood as well, like with all of us. It's all part of being human I guess and what matters the most is what we learn along the way through those events or behaviours, the things we say and do that we, or others, perceive as nutbaggery; being our true selves and owning it seems like the right thing to do.
I don't know if any of you will bother reading those (sadly) very true stories above in the links and that's your choice. Either way you might like to share some of your own nutbaggery in the comments below and if so then please feel free to do so...or even tell some lies about how you're not really a nutbag...(we know you are though.)
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