While many people are indeed focused on their wealth I think a vast majority of people are running after money in the hamster wheel just to make ends meet.
I'm having great hope in the concept of basic income. While a lot of paid work done nowadays can be considered pretty pointless there's even more useful work that can be automated. Basic income could close the gap there so we can work less and have more time for the essential things you mentioned.
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